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by **lones** » Tue Jan 20, 2009 4:12 am

Hi xkingx99,

Try to use the advice for breaking up with a BPD from the link I've posted. You have to make her bored. You have to make her feel that you are not worth as a "source".

Do not fear. She's just bluffing as they all do. She may be inteligent but her vision is impaired...

You have a great advantage over her_You are mentally healthy!!!

Use your brain against her sick PD madness!

Take care...

The time you are giving her to speak with you is her supply. I understand that you have a child with her, that should be the only conversation at all. The rest needs to be ignored by you, get yourself tested for STD's for peace of mind. Care for your child and as hard as it may seem, stop letting her speak to you about anything else. Short non-feeding answers are best. If the police need to look at you for something she has said, most likely, it will be a bogus claim and the cops will realize this. Don't let that get on your nerves.[/quote]

by **Chucky** » Tue Jan 20, 2009 9:02 pm

xkingx99 wrote:she's not an idiot! she's ###$ smart and it scares the $#%^ out of me..

she texted me today saying she's gonna get child support, sue me for slander, have me drug tested and psych evaluated.. and i think she's serious

Forgive me, but this makes you sound a little weak. I'm not trying tgo make you fel worse, but I'm rather just saying what i believe. I have no doubt that she is intelligent (but in a manipulative way), but you have to be strong here. She IS just messing with your head, as has been mentioned already by a few of us. She knows how to get to you and she's probably enjoying it.

Take a look at this line by charlybrown: "The time you are giving her to speak with you is her supply". i wish that I had come up with this line because it's so damn true. Why can't you just ake flight and forget about her? I was in your situation and I know that the way out is to change your number, email, etc; and reject all forms of contact she tries to make. Don't even read any message she sends. Don't give her the fuel that she needs to keep coming back to hurt you dude.

We're all on your side here, so, please take our advice.

Take care,
Kevin

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