Just what I thought, hpd traits are domestic violence

Here you go gentlemen, the truth has been found and will be yelled to everyone who will listen. I'm taking this matter to the top and trying to set up a meeting to tell my story and get the ball rolling on this. This article for domestic violence proves that the actions and psychological abuse used by a women that have hpd is just that: Domestic Violence

Looking back on my relationship with my ex, I can say with absolute truth that she was committing domestic violence and then the hpd cry for being a victim on top of all of the chaos? What a mind*uck?

See this is what is going through my mind. If you are with a person that commits adultery, sexual manipulation, lie and cuts the man off from his friends and family that is domestic violence. How many times have you guys felt that the hpd woman you were with would use mental manipulation to make you jump hoops to keep you around. After going through alot of the actions that my ex did, she was very manipulative and used my love as a eye blinder. While confessing her love(which is a hpd type of love) for me made me doubt my manhood and self security throughout our relationship? After I woke up from the love/blinded part(after 2.5 years) and heard "It won't happen again, I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad and wish I could feel it", I found out that she in fact lied about who and what she was. My ex even trolled the internet looking for supply behind my back and I never even thought about it until I started watching! At that point, I was a mess and hated what I was starting to become, controlling of her actions to minimise the outcome of cheating. Next thing I know, I was in a full blown abusive relationship from both side? Anyway here is some important stuff to look at and get involved in if you choose. We can turn the co-dependent part of our personalities into a positive thing!

The article is from :
Mensactivism.org

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This article is a Q & A flyer, here is the link:

Article title:Common Questions About Domestic Abuse Against Men

Look at the top, righthand side, second paragraph down from the top:

http://news.mensactivism.org/files/q_and_a_flyer.pdf
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This article is facts on domestic violence against men:

Article title:Getting the Facts: Research About Domestic Violence Against Men

http://news.mensactivism.org/files/research_flyer.pdf
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411needed:
This is the important part to keep in mind. The below context is the attitude and actions of a person with hpd. The way they lie, use psychological abuse to control and the way they view the person in a relationship with them is domestic violence. I don't think men report the abuse! We would be laughed at now and the thing that sucks is that a woman with hpd knows this!!! Keep in mind that domestic violence isn't the physical part, it is the mental part. After reading, a case of domestic violence is charged along with an assault charge, the assault is to cover the physical abuse part! The mental part is the domestic violence. This is what is in the first domestic violence article. Top, righthand side, second paragraph down from the top:


Also, domestic violence isn’t just about hitting. A
violent relationship is also when one person controls
the other’s self−esteem through manipulation, threats,
and coercive actions. Many men are quite vulnerable to
emotional manipulation by women, and some men
have been emotionally destroyed over the years
through verbal abuse from their partner. The scars
from emotional battering are often just as painful as those
from physical abuse, if not more so.

411needed:
We have been experiencing with our hpd partners is domestic violence and I don't think enough light is shined on this matter!!!! Uh, keep in mind that my ex picked the wrong person to abuse! I am writing to Mensactivism.org and telling them my story about my ex hpd and pointing them to this web site for imediate attention on this matter! I don't think that people are looking at the extreme abuse put on men by women that have hpd! There is so many men out there that have no idea that the women they are with have hpd and domestic violence is being forced on them? Maybe this will explain the huge woman based movement(feminism), all of the victims and uneven treatment for men v.s. women? Maybe there needs to be studies and phsych evaluations on some of these groups to find out?

This is the email that I sent to the site. If you guys want to help and send a short email about your experience and lets try and blow the roof off the underground movement of hpd women! This is the chance to help the guys that don't know that they are being abused and for the ones that are afraid to speak up about it, for the guys that don't know that they are being abused! We can change the future with what we have been through and make this a positive experience! There is alot of work to do and if you want to help, here is the email address:

admin@mensactivism.org


The first email sent by 411needed:
Listen, I was in a relationship with a woman who had histionic personality disorder and nobody is shining a light on the issue. Women that have histrionic personality disorder are detroying men all over the globe and there is not awareness on the issue. I belong to a website called psyForums and this link is for men suffering from women that have histrionic personality disorder and have been abused big time. I am one and trying to bring awarness up to everyone who will listen. Please can you help in any way? Please, this is a major turning pooint in the fight for being a man and proving that women commit domestic violence and get away with it!!!!!! I need to be put in contact with one of the highest people in your orginization and I can put your web site on the map and blow the doors off of the common domestic laws against men!!! Please respond when you get this because I told everybody at psychforums that I was doing this to help. There is thousands of stories that are on the Histrionic Personality Disorder part of the site. Read the in-depth part at the top and you will see that nobody even talks about the truth. We need to move on this, please, please, please forward to the top so that I can tell my story and get a group to form and discuss the domestic abuse that partners of h.p.d. are forced to endure!!!!!



My screen name is:411needed

Good on ya 411, knew you'd find the right path for yourself. Knew you were a candidate for the MRA's. I hope you get what you are needing, I really do. I wish you luck with your endeavours.

Cheers

I don't know shivers, we will see what will happens. I don't know how to prode the insanity of the world that lets hpd women get away with this, I can't find anything on histrionic personality disorder and domestic violence! No studies, no research, NOTHING?

Everyone is so wrapped up on the final stages of the physical assualt that the mental portion goes unreported by men?

Pretty much this is what should have happened in all of our cases as soon as we found out that our hpd exes where doing the abusive stuff to us and did what they did. Called the police to file a domestic violence report? Men won't do it? I just know how it is!

Let me ask this? Who did? I didn't!!! I'm pretty sure no one else did either since no one has talked about it.

I think I just want to see how hpd and domestic violence plays out. I'm not stopping until some kind of reasearch gets started, I write a book to raise awareness or make a dent in the femnist bubble that protects women who abuse men while having histrionic personality disorder.

If you'd like, and when I have the time, which will be before March 09 when my studies resume, I can scour the on-line University library journal resources on the term HPD and if I can download a PDF file of any scholarly research that has good credentials, I could forward to you via email. would you be interested if I did that for you?

Let me know, and I'll spend some time doing a search, as a favour. OK?

FIGJAM!!!!

I found this. I did a search on Histrionic Personality Disorder in the Journal, Violence and Victims.

The title of the article is: Female Domestic Violence Offenders: Their Attachment Security, Trauma Symptoms, and Personality Organization

The Journal article is by: Julie Goldenson, Robert Geffner, Sharon L Foster, Clark R Clipson.

Violence and Victims. New York: 2007. Vol. 22, Iss. 5; pg. 532, 14 pgs

Here is the abstract:

Abstract (Summary)

Unlike male domestic violence offenders, female domestic violence offenders have traditionally been overlooked in research and theory, despite the fact that females also have high rates of domestic violence perpetration. Towards the aim of extending extant research on male and female pepetrators of domestic violence, we examined attachment style, trauma symptoms, and personality organization in 33 female offenders receiving mandated treatment for domestic violence. These offenders were compared to 32 nonoffending women receiving psychological treatment. The Experiences in Close Relationships Revised (ECR-Revised) was used to examine adult attachment, the Trauma Symptom Inventory (TSI) was used to examine trauma symptomology, and finally, the Millon Clinical Multiaxial Inventory III (MCMI-III) was used to examine cluster B personality traits. Analyses indicated that female domestic violence offenders reported less attachment security, more trauma-related symptoms, and more personality psychopathology (Antisocial, Borderline, and Dependent Subscales) than did nonoffender clinical comparison women. [PUBLICATION ABSTRACT]

I can download the PDF, if you'd like to read the whole report. PM me with your email if you'd like it.

If you do, I'll see if I can get you some more, ok?

PS: I have not filtered these, I took the first title that looked of interest to you in the search list.

Shivers, I'll email you now.

I'm going through this $#%^ right now and I just want the cyko out of my life. She is in complete denial of what she did and doing right now!!!! She will not just leave!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Kate, take all of your #######4 and just give me a divorce!!!!!

She will not let me go and continues to try and control?

She has given me a deal which is considered a trade of actions, abusive people do it to get their way.

I'M NOT GOING TO GIVE IN NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO? I WILL NOT FREEKING LET YOU WIN THIS ONE? MAKE UP SOME MORE VICTIM STORIES, BUT REMEMBER TO KEEP TO THE TRUTH MRS. HPD?

I have banned both 411needed and heretohelp for AGAIN bringing this site to personal attack. Neither user will be allowed to return.