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by A little Wisernow » Tue Sep 16, 2008 1:34 am
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by Dan » Tue Sep 16, 2008 1:45 am
Duped by an employee with HPD. I thought we were friends, she wanted more. I tried to save her, yata yata yata.....
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and how was your day?
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by A little Wisernow » Tue Sep 16, 2008 1:50 am
Yep,
I'm an old man now..........and wiser. I've had two beautiful
HPD girls come on to me at work......I could see right through them.....
Knowledge is powerful..................
I saw right through their childish personalities..........
Do you think Monica Lewinsky is an HPD?
I'm an old man now..........and wiser. I've had two beautiful
HPD girls come on to me at work......I could see right through them.....
Knowledge is powerful..................
I saw right through their childish personalities..........
Do you think Monica Lewinsky is an HPD?
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by Dan » Tue Sep 16, 2008 1:57 am
She didn't wash the dress. She couldn't wait to tell Tripp about the "Lewinsky" she gave the president.
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by ccumm36D » Tue Sep 16, 2008 4:28 am
So, twenty years pass...
Life's a peach and then...
BOOM!
How did that happen? I mean twenty years is a generation. You've moved on with your life and what she just called you up on the phone? Dropped by the office? What?
And then seeing her again triggered... what, PTSD? After twenty years why would you even care? You knew this woman for a few months, were married for a few days... were apart for years!
Have you spoken about this with your current wife? How does she feel about this apparition from the past having such a grip on you? She ought to be pissed and has every right to be!
Giving up and dropping it...? "Neither of you wanted to be married"? I'm not convinced. Sounds like you're trying to convince yourself though. Good luck with that!
Hey! My shadows back! Don't ever change, tuffy!
Life's a peach and then...
BOOM!
How did that happen? I mean twenty years is a generation. You've moved on with your life and what she just called you up on the phone? Dropped by the office? What?
And then seeing her again triggered... what, PTSD? After twenty years why would you even care? You knew this woman for a few months, were married for a few days... were apart for years!
Have you spoken about this with your current wife? How does she feel about this apparition from the past having such a grip on you? She ought to be pissed and has every right to be!
Giving up and dropping it...? "Neither of you wanted to be married"? I'm not convinced. Sounds like you're trying to convince yourself though. Good luck with that!
Hey! My shadows back! Don't ever change, tuffy!
"It's not how hard you can hit. It's how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward".
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by A little Wisernow » Tue Sep 16, 2008 9:58 am
Ccum,
We were like Forrest Gump and Jenny.............We were "together" from age 5 till age 20........We were great friends....although I always knew she was a brat......
We were like Forrest Gump and Jenny.............We were "together" from age 5 till age 20........We were great friends....although I always knew she was a brat......
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by donlimpio » Tue Sep 16, 2008 10:04 am
Ccumm36D, you ask how this can happen after 20 years, all of a sudden... Well, this prospect is something that makes me very scared. I can feel that she has her hooks in me, that she has a very unhealthy hotline right to my heart, eliciting sympathy and pity even though she treats me like sh*t herself.
I am also pretty confident, especially the way she's ######6 up her life completely (it's not a pretty sight >> last month she got caught having sex in a nightclub toilet with the guy who raped her when she was 13 - also incidentally in a nightclub toilet - counterphobia at it's worst and most destructive), that she WILL remember where the love and care was found, just once in her life. This is not a saviour complex: I really was her first decent guy, and she's back to scum of the earth now.
Soooo, who will she run to when her money runs out? Who will she turn to when her man beats her up and kicks her out? I know damn well who she'll turn to
. And I fear that day...
A big part of the solution is of course simple: I have to let go.. I have to be strong enough so that she does not have her hooks in me. She won't change... But it's damn hard, and I'm afraid...
As a previous poster said, the only thing that is making it easier for me (while making it a damn sight harder on me at the same time) is the extreme nature of her actions and betrayals.
Oh well, better call my therapist again...
I am also pretty confident, especially the way she's ######6 up her life completely (it's not a pretty sight >> last month she got caught having sex in a nightclub toilet with the guy who raped her when she was 13 - also incidentally in a nightclub toilet - counterphobia at it's worst and most destructive), that she WILL remember where the love and care was found, just once in her life. This is not a saviour complex: I really was her first decent guy, and she's back to scum of the earth now.
Soooo, who will she run to when her money runs out? Who will she turn to when her man beats her up and kicks her out? I know damn well who she'll turn to
. And I fear that day...
A big part of the solution is of course simple: I have to let go.. I have to be strong enough so that she does not have her hooks in me. She won't change... But it's damn hard, and I'm afraid...
As a previous poster said, the only thing that is making it easier for me (while making it a damn sight harder on me at the same time) is the extreme nature of her actions and betrayals.
Oh well, better call my therapist again...
Democracy is 3 wolves and a sheep deciding what's for dinner
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by A little Wisernow » Tue Sep 16, 2008 10:17 am
It's actually been 40 years since the divorce.
She came back into my life 3 times that I can remember.
I almost fell for her charms the second time..........
Almost........
She came back into my life 3 times that I can remember.
I almost fell for her charms the second time..........
Almost........
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by Dan » Wed Sep 17, 2008 12:04 am
When a friend / poster starts to belittle you like your better half used to, you may be listening to a Narc and should pay more attention.
What your feeling has no meaning and doesn't count. Sound familiar to how your HPD treated you when we were involved with them.
HPD / NPD is cluster B period. Ccumm is not over his and wishes to vent his own inability to come to grasp with this reality. We are all weaker than him and need to "Build a f@#kin' bridge and start getting over it" This is projection period.
Not a healthy thing for people looking for support.
PS. I kept reading Psych Forums, I liked the Support that was going on and felt no need to post until now.
What your feeling has no meaning and doesn't count. Sound familiar to how your HPD treated you when we were involved with them.
HPD / NPD is cluster B period. Ccumm is not over his and wishes to vent his own inability to come to grasp with this reality. We are all weaker than him and need to "Build a f@#kin' bridge and start getting over it" This is projection period.
Not a healthy thing for people looking for support.
PS. I kept reading Psych Forums, I liked the Support that was going on and felt no need to post until now.
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by ccumm36D » Wed Sep 17, 2008 5:41 am
Wisernow wrote:Ccum,
We were like Forrest Gump and Jenny.............We were "together" from age 5 till age 20........We were great friends....although I always knew she was a brat......
Okay... that's no answer. Neither of you are characters in a movie, so don't tell me about Forrest and Jenny... tell me about you and the ex, forty years removed.
DLimp, I know how it can happen. I know it will happen... I want to know just exactly how it did happen for wiser(stilltroubled)now. But he doesn't seem to want to fill in any of the blank spots... like the forty years between the marriage and his current suffering.
Is it just me? Or does anyone else hear a buzzing noise?
Bless your heart, tuffy! Don't ever give up!
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