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Postby digital.noface » Mon Mar 26, 2007 4:01 am

Kane wrote:Your post is relatively incoherent to myself. You did not make any clear point against me, either.
Is his analogy aimed at your post, or my behaviour? Either way..
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Postby Dan » Mon Mar 26, 2007 8:14 pm

Thanks for making my case. Using the HPD forum for NS is just sick. My staff laughed at your debasing so easily. I said he will go into attack mode and pick on my poor English skills. We will see clinical responses from him. He comes to this forum for supply. The low estimate, lives saved from bombing Japan. Over 1 million US/Australian soldiers and civilians. You hate everything and everyone higher on the food chain, a very long list. Classic NPD, please be kind to these people in need, the HPD victims deserve much better. Kick your dingo before posting, get the inferiority out first.
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Postby digital.noface » Tue Mar 27, 2007 1:20 am

toughtobme wrote:Thanks for making my case. Using the HPD forum for NS is just sick. My staff laughed at your debasing so easily. I said he will go into attack mode and pick on my poor English skills. We will see clinical responses from him. He comes to this forum for supply. The low estimate, lives saved from bombing Japan. Over 1 million US/Australian soldiers and civilians. You hate everything and everyone higher on the food chain, a very long list. Classic NPD, please be kind to these people in need, the HPD victims deserve much better. Kick your dingo before posting, get the inferiority out first.
Right, well at least I understood most of that. You are right, however. I did initially come here simply to source NS, alongside of learning about the 'supposed' disorder I had. However, as time went by, and I made progress, and my life stabilised somewhat, I have gradually come to use this site as a journal for my recovery, and a place wherein I can grant some validation to my efforts in conquering my disorder (by looking at the hopelessness of those with my disorder- and thus waking myself up from the desirable delusion that NPD is 'superior').

If you think you saw my attack mode, you are fortunately mistaken. Since I first saw you I have exhibited nothing but restraint and bemusement. Your post have, mostly, been incomprehensible, and all along I have simply sought to understand what it is you have to say 9and later, from which language backround you come).

Also, I am not sure of your meaning on the reference to the hiroshima/nagasaki bombings. Or on the term 'kick my dingo'. Is it a racial slur? Even so, what is the implied meaning? What does 'my dingo' represent? Inferiority?

You are also correct that I take a merciless approach to many of the HPD victims here, though I do not terrorise them. A closer appraisal of my post will reveal a 'tough love' apporach wherein I withold the sympathy they seek, for their own benefit. I do not demonise them, nor do I belittle them, rather I agressively encourage them to take ownership of their lives (and the problems that come with it) so as to better improve their circumstance. Sympathy, on the other hand, leads only down the endless path of perpetuation.
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Postby digital.noface » Tue Mar 27, 2007 1:24 am

rubystar wrote:You have had a transference reaction to digital. It's obvious you are trying to impress him. You don't hate him, you actually like him. Toughtobme you are actually extracting supply from him, you are a typical garden variety N-magnet. Digtal, you have a fan.
Shhh, I'm playing.

Seriously though, this guy has been odd. He has been launching baseless attacks at me since he arrived. Not surprisingly, all of the attacks (due to their baseless nature) fall short and land somewhere about my feet. Most of my posts with him have been revolving in my figurative picking up of the attacks, examining them, and asking questions.

It seems toughtobeme has succeeded in getting my attention, though not my respect. Something more akin to curiousity and amusement.
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Postby Dan » Tue Mar 27, 2007 2:27 am

No. :roll: you definitely use the tough love approach to extract NS. I am glad you get the Hiroshima/Nagasaki reference. "Sandakan Death March is Australia's 'Holocaust'. Of the 2345 men, only six survived."
You do remind me of my anti self. :?: I love the human race and you seem to despise it. Was it an American that hurt your family? You make several references to hating our women.
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Postby Dan » Tue Mar 27, 2007 2:31 am

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Postby Dan » Tue Mar 27, 2007 4:40 am

Kane said, "You did not make any clear point against me, either" . No kidding, you are not interesting. You clone ideas around Digital, like seeking approval.
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Postby digital.noface » Tue Mar 27, 2007 8:16 am

toughtobme wrote:No. :roll: you definitely use the tough love approach to extract NS.
No, I don't. When have you seen me get NS for telling people that they suck, and need to pick up their $#%^ and move on?
I am glad you get the Hiroshima/Nagasaki reference.
I didn't.
"Sandakan Death March is Australia's 'Holocaust'. Of the 2345 men, only six survived."
What does this have to do with anything?
You do remind me of my anti self. :?: I love the human race and you seem to despise it.
Not the human race in and of itself. Just people, (well, most of them), I have high standards. unlike others, however, my standards lay above the measure of the 'average' individual.
Was it an American that hurt your family? You make several references to hating our women.
Oh, you have been reading old old threads. I think I get it now. Did I post about the A-bomb here? Thats a bit political for a mental health site. Maybe i was bored.

Anyhow, yes, I do have a problem with most of the Americans I meet (usually tourists). Generally speaking, I find them ignorant, uninformed, loud, abrasive, inconsiderate, arrogant, and (last but not least) stupid. American women, I find to be all of the above, but also empty, shallow, and vacuous (to the point where I think they must be encouraged by society to act stupid or something). Plus they wear too much make-up, and often speak with irritatingly fake nasal voices (In addition to the american accent, which I largely hate, though there are some exceptions. 'Movie american' I can handle, as can I deal with 'mid-atlantic' and 'NY' accents).

That being said, I also meet a lot of americans I like online. I just seem to have disproportionate lack of in doing so in real life. Perhaps it is because of the kind of Americans that visit Australia as tourists. I don't know. however, these perceptions are reinforced by equally as purile American media, government, and pop-culture (from which I source only disgust and pain, again, with a few exceptions).
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Postby digital.noface » Tue Mar 27, 2007 8:19 am

toughtobme wrote:Kane said, "You did not make any clear point against me, either" . No kidding, you are not interesting. You clone ideas around Digital, like seeking approval.
Wait.. why is your english good again? Are you getting someone else to type for you?

Also, you never did answer my question. What language background are you from? What about your 'mail-oder bride' (as you put it)?
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Postby Dan » Wed Mar 28, 2007 12:52 am

This is rich, much better than expected. You are making me a GOD in the workplace. Thanks Digital....
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