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Greetings, fellow users of this forum. I have a friend named ***, and he's a male HPD(or so he claims.) Every single day, he speaks of his crush. Often, he would talk to his crush and at the end of the day, he'd honk about what good she has done in his life. This has been going on for a month or possibly, even longer. At the fifteenth day of this behavior, my other friend *** and I decided to ignore his ludicrous behavior. He then contacts me online and states that it would not work if we ignored him. I denied it and tried to give him a reason. In short words, I told him that he was being ignorant to others feelings(this is because he was bothering my friend Vince while he was terribly miserable. Basically, *** was making my friend *** feel even worse, to the point of him just cracking and having a long discussion with me on what to do with ***.) So eventually, we found the need to just stop ignoring him. He constantly pestered me online, so I eventually end up yelling at him online as a daily routine whenever it bothered me. I happened to be hurting his feelings and he told me to stop yelling. I think I saw the wrong with yelling, but this talk of his crush is just erratic. I and *** have been friends with him for three school years straight and yet, he never vocalizes the good we've done everyday no matter how little it was(because his crush always did similarly good little things just like we did.) *** has only met his crush and actually started speaking to her some two or three months ago. I now want to bash my fist for this attitude. And guys, it was he that instructed me to get your insights on this matter. It wasn't done by me just by intention; I was INSTRUCTED. Please give me your thoughts on this matter. Oh and, earlier, if I haven't mentioned it, he's male.