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My friend has a problem

Postby redligot2009 » Wed Apr 03, 2013 12:33 pm

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Greetings, fellow users of this forum. I have a friend named ***, and he's a male HPD(or so he claims.) Every single day, he speaks of his crush. Often, he would talk to his crush and at the end of the day, he'd honk about what good she has done in his life. This has been going on for a month or possibly, even longer. At the fifteenth day of this behavior, my other friend *** and I decided to ignore his ludicrous behavior. He then contacts me online and states that it would not work if we ignored him. I denied it and tried to give him a reason. In short words, I told him that he was being ignorant to others feelings(this is because he was bothering my friend Vince while he was terribly miserable. Basically, *** was making my friend *** feel even worse, to the point of him just cracking and having a long discussion with me on what to do with ***.) So eventually, we found the need to just stop ignoring him. He constantly pestered me online, so I eventually end up yelling at him online as a daily routine whenever it bothered me. I happened to be hurting his feelings and he told me to stop yelling. I think I saw the wrong with yelling, but this talk of his crush is just erratic. I and *** have been friends with him for three school years straight and yet, he never vocalizes the good we've done everyday no matter how little it was(because his crush always did similarly good little things just like we did.) *** has only met his crush and actually started speaking to her some two or three months ago. I now want to bash my fist for this attitude. And guys, it was he that instructed me to get your insights on this matter. It wasn't done by me just by intention; I was INSTRUCTED. Please give me your thoughts on this matter. Oh and, earlier, if I haven't mentioned it, he's male.
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Re: My friend has a problem

Postby Vindex » Thu Apr 04, 2013 1:05 am

Eh, I only said you can rant about me here, but I did not instruct you to write something like that, that writing was your own, so don't come up with words such as "he INSTRUCTED me" when the writing was your choice, please. Thank you.
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Postby redligot2009 » Thu Apr 04, 2013 7:45 am

Eh, I only said you can rant about me here, but I did not instruct you to write something like that, that writing was your own, so don't come up with words such as "he INSTRUCTED me" when the writing was your choice, please. Thank you.

Thank you for pointing that out, good man.
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Re: My friend has a problem

Postby masquerade » Thu Apr 04, 2013 10:06 am

Whilst you are both free to post on here, even if you know each other in 3D, you are NOT allowed to continue your arguments on the public forum. This is a support forum for those affected by HPD, and as such, posts made here should be constructive, educational, supportive and respectful. Whilst healthy discussion is encouraged in order to provide clarity, the arguments that you had in the classroom cannot be continued here. Just letting you guys know. :-)
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