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this is real love, real man, LOOK!

Postby yYyYy » Mon Jan 14, 2013 4:19 am

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q90Iq7kCOr8

I wonder how other hpds think about him, but
i'd call that a form of love I want.

people get 'embarrassed' to be with hpds in public situation sometimes
bc our.. dramatic... behaviors
but look at the man in the video
he is showing TRUE LOVE
he doesn't care about what other people think,
but buys two tickets for gf , two food for gf,
he has some courage, love!
see how he hold the hand of his girlfriend on the ride!!
how kind... awwwww

most of guys don't have guts compared to him.
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Postby xdude » Mon Jan 14, 2013 5:40 am

There is a movie titled "Rubr Sparks" about an author who writes and fatasizes about his dream girl. Then she comes to life. For a time he is happy. She says and does exactly what he expects. She adores him. But slowly he comes to be less content. He slowly comes to realize there is no her. That there is no love because she has no free will to choose love. He is still alone. I won't tell you how it ends but it has a positive message.
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Postby yYyYy » Mon Jan 14, 2013 7:13 am

well i am not seriously saying that that is the most admirable form of love
but it's admirable that he doesn't get 'embarrassed' by his gf in public. :)
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Postby Sometimes » Tue Jan 15, 2013 6:46 pm

this is pretty interesting. i thought it would be a real couple and at first thought you were just playing a joke? well maybe you were because there is no real woman for him to love so it isn't really a couple, but it is interesting to me because it gave me an idea...a histrionic idea that I can remember.
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Postby xdude » Tue Jan 15, 2013 9:50 pm

yYyYy wrote:well i am not seriously saying that that is the most admirable form of love
but it's admirable that he doesn't get 'embarrassed' by his gf in public. :)


True he doesn't seem embarrassed. On the flip side -

He likes having a 'gf' that he never has to listen too because it has nothing to say, that makes no demands of him, that wants nothing, that costs nothing to live with, it never demands more attention then he feels like giving, it doesn't flirt with other guys or ever say anything he doesn't want to hear, and for all we know in private he locks up in his closet or sits on when it's time to play x-box. Does that make her the perfect gf? (sarcasm meant of course)
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Postby crystal_richardson_ » Thu Jan 17, 2013 11:02 pm

that's hilarious :lol:
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Postby Fallen_Angel73 » Sun Jan 20, 2013 4:17 am

yYyYy wrote:he is showing TRUE LOVE

He's treating an object like a person.

I could try my freudtalk and draw analogies to feelings and self-image here, but I guess I can leave it as an exercise for the reader... ;)
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Postby wooster » Tue Jan 22, 2013 8:52 pm

Hey that's a pillow, not a HPD - no cause for embarrassment.
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