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Help! Is my neck fetish normal?

Postby mw1992 » Thu Nov 27, 2014 11:10 pm

Hi, Im a female. And I'm 22. Ever since I can remember I've had a very strange obsession with men's necks, throat, mouth, etc. I get an immediate arousal if I look at, touch, kiss, or if I'm even in a close proximity to a mans neck. Especially if he has a big Adams apple, I go crazy if I can touch or kiss it. (Although I'm very secretive)
I've never told anyone this, not even my partners. It's just embarrassing, at least to me.

It's been this way since I was extremely young. I know lots of people have weird fetishes, but what does a normal person think of this? Am I weird? Does anyone else have this fetish?

ugh, please let me know your thoughts on this
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Re: Help! Is my neck fetish normal?

Postby sprooglestrewft » Fri Nov 28, 2014 9:47 am

I think it's a blessing. A girl who kisses my neck, especially if she does it well and without me having to ask for it would be a dream come true. There is nothing more intimate. I hope you find a guy who can appreciate the true loveliness of having his neck ravished. This is definitely not a problem.
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Re: Help! Is my neck fetish normal?

Postby Ada » Fri Nov 28, 2014 12:23 pm

I don't believe in "normal." :D

But I don't have that fetish. And I think it's fine. It's pretty easy to satisfy discreetly without sharing it with a partner. [Though I don't think they'd judge as much as you fear.] I can imagine it must be awkward in daily life. That's in common with a lot of fetishes though.
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Re: Help! Is my neck fetish normal?

Postby ElKahn » Fri Nov 28, 2014 7:39 pm

I think it's okay, I mean, it's not like you jump on people or something. Does it cause you distress? If it doesn't, then that's ok. Does it happen with every man, or do they have to be a specific type of man with a specific type of neck?
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Re: Help! Is my neck fetish normal?

Postby mw1992 » Sat Nov 29, 2014 4:18 pm

Hi, thank you for your replies. It helps to talk about it more and I don't want it to change, my only wish is that I can share it with more people in the real world haha, no I don't go crazy and jump on people, I'm very modest, it can happen with any guy really, just as long as they are attractive and have a nice neck, but no super specific preferences. Thank you for talking with me :)
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Re: Help! Is my neck fetish normal?

Postby spdich » Wed Jan 07, 2015 2:43 pm

GOD I would be blessed if I get somebody like u and plays with my adams apple..u really make me hopeful seeing such girls in real world exists
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Re: Help! Is my neck fetish normal?

Postby Endymion » Wed Jan 07, 2015 9:39 pm

I'd have to echo the above. I love having my neck kissed. If you were my girlfriend I'd let you kiss it as much as you liked, especially during sex, just as long as I could kiss your feet in return.
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Re: Help! Is my neck fetish normal?

Postby Snaga » Thu Jan 08, 2015 7:40 pm

I don't even consider this a fetish. I like nibbling necks. Mine nibbled. It's an erogenous area afaic. Being turned on by necks to me no more weird than the fact I dig big butts. People naturally latch onto body parts they like. Now if you came up to strange men and arranged to latch onto their necks like a foot fetishist getting one over on strange woman in a shoe store you might have a problem but no one is going to think it's pervy of you to say I dig guys necks.... I don't think anyway.

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I don't even consider this a fetish. I like nibbling necks. Mine nibbled. It's an erogenous area afaic. Being turned on by necks to me no more weird than the fact I dig big butts. People naturally latch onto body parts they like. Now if you came up to strange men and arranged to latch onto their necks like a foot fetishist getting one over on strange woman in a shoe store you might have a problem but no one is going to think it's pervy of you to say I dig guys necks.... I don't think anyway.
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Re: Help! Is my neck fetish normal?

Postby Myotherlife » Fri Jan 09, 2015 1:09 am

First off, there is no "normal". Any normative human activity represents what the majority of people do, and and "normal" human activity is not necessarily healthy or even healthy. The high credit card debt that most people seem to have is "normal," as is obesity, heavy drinking, and smoking.

I don't think that your "neck thing" is a fetish at all. It's just something that you have learned is arousing to you. I have several fetishes, and I only wish they were as benign as being aroused by a neck! When it comes to arousal, my wife's and breasts are arousing to me, when she lets me touch and kiss them, but even more arousing are her lips. All it takes is for me to kiss her and brush her lips lightly with my fingers, and I'm ready to go! Is that a fetish? I don't think so. Unless you are seriously troubled by your "neck thing," don't give it another thought. Enjoy those necks as much as you want! There are bigger problems in the world.

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Re: Help! Is my neck fetish normal?

Postby Vinylvanilla » Sun Jan 11, 2015 4:43 pm

Of course it is a fetish! Sexual fetish happens when there is sexual arousal caused by an object, situation, body part, etc... There is podolatria, why shouldn't there be a fetish for necks?

I can relate to it because I'm obsessed with necks... And Adam pomes. And I love when people kiss or caress my neck as well. And yes it's a fetish.
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