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My strange medical fetishes

Postby lorendzin1 » Sat Aug 30, 2014 3:45 pm

Hello!
I'm new here and I don't perfectly know how this forum work, but I would like to share my fetishes and talk about them.
I'm 26 male and I have a lot of fetishes but I'm espiecially attracted to girls which are injured or wounded and wear all kinds of dressings: it means - bandages, casts, bandaids/plasters. I am especially attracted to bandages on hands and bandaids on fingers. The latter turn me most, especially if a girl is wearing multiple bandaids on many fingers. I am also into cast fetish, so I like seeing girls with legs or arms in plaster casts (or both of them). Sometimes I used to wear bandages/bandaids by myself (I have even hurt my hands slicing them to put dressings or put them on healthy hands and only predend). It has given me great sexual pleasure. The biggest problem is that I am not interested in normal women. Actually, I have never been. For example women's breasts, vaginas or bottoms have never made any impression on me and it's completely frustrating, because I can't have any normal relationship. I am not interested in normal sex and my ex-girlfriends have not even wanted to hear about my fantasies. I have been to sexologist, but he wasn't able to help me. I'm quite frustrated, but I am not able to fight with my internal cravings which I have had since I can recall. The best what would happen is for me to get to know the girl which has the same fetish or accept it and would like to play with it. But I think such a girl doesn't exist.
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Re: My strange medical fetishes

Postby Saf » Mon Sep 01, 2014 1:09 pm

I'm not sure it would be easy to find someone who shares your fetish, but I can't imagine not being able to find someone who isn't able to accept it. If you're also willing to contribute to her desires, I think there are many women who would be absolutely open to indulging you, in fantasy. Would your sexual desire be fulfilled with her pretending to be injured?
Anyone who refuses to hear about your fantasies is not someone you would want to be in a relationship with. I think these types of things are very important for couples to talk about and determine safe ways to help the other experience pleasure. I have very little interest in "normal" sex myself and would not be able to function in a sexual relationship where I could not involve my paraphilia.
You should look for someone who seems open-minded, or someone who even has a few conventionally strange fetishes themselves. People tend to be more open to these types of things when they have some of their own. They do exist.
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Re: My strange medical fetishes

Postby amara835 » Mon Sep 01, 2014 6:59 pm

It seems to me you only met very closed-minded girls... I mean, it's not such an extreem effort to put some band-aids on! Would you be satisfied with a girl just pretending to be hurt, or do you "work" only if the wounds are real? Even in that case, we're not talking about major injuries so there must be someone out there who's not afraid of a little scratch! :)
I'm mostly attracted to men with severe physical disabilities, so I can relate with how you feel, I thought I'd never find anyone that shared or accepted my fetish... but in your case, believe me, everything is much much simpler than you think! If you're honest with a girl and ready to compromise for her a little, you'll find a solution! Good luck!
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Re: My strange medical fetishes

Postby lorendzin1 » Thu Sep 04, 2014 6:34 pm

Thank you for replies, I appreciate it a lot :) Real injuries with bandages or bandaids on turn me on more, but it would be ok, if a girl only pretended. I would love to find someone who would like even to play this way, but it's not easy for me. I could also sweep fetisheh with a girl, for example I do what she likes, she shares her fetish with me and vice versa. Maybe I have bad luck, but I don't know how to find girls willing to share fetishes here, in Poland. There should be pages when we can display our fetishes and find someone similar :)
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Re: My strange medical fetishes

Postby Myotherlife » Sat Sep 06, 2014 10:37 pm

It certainly isn't necessary for anyone to find a partner whose sexual needs perfectly match theirs. The key is to find a partner who is sufficiently open-minded to understand that sexual fetishes do not define their owner, but are simply attributes, just as blue eyes and taste for pickles are attributes. My own situation reflects this.

From the time I was 13 or 14 years old, I was aroused by some of the more "anti-social" fetishes you can imagine. Let's just say that I don't find toilets all that useful (among other "interests," such as wearing panties and menstrual or incontinence pads). Naturally, I was at pains not to explain these things to my girlfriends, or even to my wife. Finally, however, when I was about 65 years old (!), I got tired of the secrecy, which was very stressful, and I confessed all to my wife, unsure of her response. She listened quietly, asked a couple of easy-to-answer questions, and then said, "OK, do you have anything else to tell me? I've some some chores I need to do." A few days later she asked me if I'd like her to go shopping with me for pads and panties.

I realize that my wife is probably very rare, and that I am one very lucky guy. But how rare is she, really? There just have to be other women like her. Finding them will probably be hard, but it's worth the effort. One thing I have learned is that fetishes just aren't going to go away. Nor is the person who "owns" them in any way responsible for their existence. They are hard-wired into our autonomic nervous system, because of circumstances and/or events early in our life that we cannot possibly be held accountable for.

Good luck to you.

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Re: My strange medical fetishes

Postby ElKahn » Tue Sep 09, 2014 1:14 am

Every kind of fetish exists and every kind of fetishist exists. You'll probably find someone.

Good luck.
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