Coming out of the closet: Foot fetish

Yes I have been told its the most common of all fetishes, and I am not completely obsessed with feet or anything but an attractive pair of feet on an attractive woman with a pretty face gets my hormones pumping.

My first memories of this attraction were around the age of 12 (which is when I first remember feeling ANY kind of sexual attraction towards women).

To me the fetish is very embarrassing. I have not had much luck with women in life, but if I did get into a relationship I would likely not tell them/try to hide it because its embarrassing to me, and seems moderately "odd".

I find other parts of women attractive to some degree, but nowhere as strongly as feet, although I am VERY picky about what feet and women I find attractive.

I am not into the "smell" thing that some foot fetishes are, I like clean and healthy feet. I do not mind a mild, normal scent, but highly smelly / unclean feet are repulsive to me.

In my teen years I was lucky enough to have given some very pretty girls some feet messages and this drove me crazy! But I have never had sex with anyone, and I have never had a full sexual experience involving feet (ie having some sort of real sex somehow involving feet as part of it).

I keep my fetish hidden cause of the embarrassment, though I know that only a small percentage of the population would be outraged or think that liking feet is "seriously weirdo". Most people are somewhat more accepting than that I think, but I having low confidence with women I would die of embarrassment touching their feet and having them know it turns me on.

I find the soles / bottom side of the feet most attractive. I have absolutely no idea why, I don't have any memories that would suggest that I was "conditioned" this way. I do not know if it was conditioning or may even be some genetic trait.

I also have a moderate attraction to tickling females / and being tickled by them, though I have never actually engaged in this, however this "fetish" is less strong than my foot fetish and ideally involves the tickling of females feet.

Well I am out the closet now.

I think you should try to overcome the feeling of embarrassment. There's nothing to be ashame of if you like women's feet. Instead of thinking what made you that way (because I think it's not gonna work), I would rather try to find reasons that make you feel embarrasing. When you do that and figure out there's nothing wrong with you, find a girl who would enjoy your fetish.

I get it , I am almost obsessed with womans feet and have had this for a long time. Im like always looking for the ultimate nice female feet when Im out in public, the obession to see the perfect ones. Its something about the shapes of them thats just so interesting to like explore by looking at.

I have when I feel comfortabe around a woman I know a little bit and just said something like "For some reason I realy like girl feet and yours are real nice... can I check them out".

For me its also wierd how it works the other way and if I don't find a girls feet attractive Im just like yuck and not very attracted to her even if the rest of her is somewhat hot. A hotty with nasty feet is not a hotty.

I have had my girl "feet friends" where I have broken the ice about the fetish and they let me play with there feet. The strangest thing is after five or 10 minutes of messing with them I start getting bored of it , I am all turned on but we are just "feet friends" and it goes no further.

I will never understand that, I have an almost obsessive foot fetish and somehow I start getting bored of touching them in 10 minutes and am sort of left with feeling "what was the big deal" then sooner then next day its back, or even sooner "look at her feet over they are interesting...

cybergenesis wrote:I find the soles / bottom side of the feet most attractive. I have absolutely no idea why, I don't have any memories that would suggest that I was "conditioned" this way. I do not know if it was conditioning or may even be some genetic trait.

I think I figured out "why" when I was writing about my other fetish and where it came from. I never pondered the foot fetish origin. This writing is theraputic. Anyway I think its the same thing but I don't remeber when at all, my mind must have asked the question "what do girl feet feel like?" and my imagination replied "realy realy nice, go find some".

I used to have a thing for female feet when I was very young and was actually conscious about showing anyone my feet (if I was changing shoes at school for example)as they were sort of a private part in my mind. Watching a girl in ballet shoes on tv was a turn on for me. I don't know where it came from. I lost interest until I hit puberty then it came back briefly. It wasn't until a few years ago that I became interested in them again. I'm not entirely sure it's something that would be appealing to me outside of fantasy, but if I'm bored of the usual stuff I might want a foot job.. I don't think it's anything to be embarrassed of when you think of all the things that could get a person off, especially considering it's the most common one.

Hello cybergenesis,

I too have had an intense "foot fetish" from a young age but I don't care to be labeled a "fetishist", which more involves the sexual attraction to an object like a shoe or panties then a body part. No one who likes girls breasts, butts or vaginas is labeled a fetishist, so neither should we be. Perhaps if we all stopped using that term we wouldn't feel like we have a weird disease or something?

I have come to the age and point where I'm secure no longer try to fight my love of female feet, and I don't even care very much if people find out anymore. As a matter of fact, it may be better that way because then their will be no surprises for prospective dates. And I'd highly recommend you do not get hooked up with anyone not willing to have an open mind and won't allow you to explore more parts of her body then just the "normal" ones. You will only find yourself being forever miserable if you do. We as intense sexual creatures should have a right to be fulfilled once in a while, both men and women.

Your love of feet will probably never go away until you are very old and sexually inactive. As a matter of fact, it may only intensify with age as mine did. I'd embrace it if I were you, and don't blow anymore chances at having a pair of pretty little sexy feet to play with!

As far as the smell thing goes, I like a little smell up close and personal which is normal, but nothing that would clear out a room or anything! Most self-respecting girls worth having usually won't ever let their feet get that bad anyway, unless doing so deliberately.

Seasurfer wrote:I get it , I am almost obsessed with womans feet and have had this for a long time. Im like always looking for the ultimate nice female feet when Im out in public, the obession to see the perfect ones. Its something about the shapes of them thats just so interesting to like explore by looking at.

I have when I feel comfortabe around a woman I know a little bit and just said something like "For some reason I realy like girl feet and yours are real nice... can I check them out".

For me its also wierd how it works the other way and if I don't find a girls feet attractive Im just like yuck and not very attracted to her even if the rest of her is somewhat hot. A hotty with nasty feet is not a hotty.

I have had my girl "feet friends" where I have broken the ice about the fetish and they let me play with there feet. The strangest thing is after five or 10 minutes of messing with them I start getting bored of it , I am all turned on but we are just "feet friends" and it goes no further.

I will never understand that, I have an almost obsessive foot fetish and somehow I start getting bored of touching them in 10 minutes and am sort of left with feeling "what was the big deal" then sooner then next day its back, or even sooner "look at her feet over they are interesting...

I am a mix between you and the OP. I feel very welcome in this forum. Thanks everyone

Hey, don't worry so much. I'm a female without a foot fetish but, I have done foot fetish videos online and have dated people with foot fetishes. I think it might confuse some people but its very common and lets face it, a great and SAFE fetish so most people have no problem with it. My current boyfriend did not have a foot fetish when we started dating but he knew about my videos and would tease me. he teased me because he was curious how feet could turn anyone on. so we engaged in some foot play just for "kicks" and turns out hes got a total foot fetish now. haha Beside EVERY girl wants a guy who will give her foot rubs whenever she wants!!!!!

Mind'n'Ruins wrote:Hey, don't worry so much. I'm a female without a foot fetish but, I have done foot fetish videos online and have dated people with foot fetishes. I think it might confuse some people but its very common and lets face it, a great and SAFE fetish so most people have no problem with it. My current boyfriend did not have a foot fetish when we started dating but he knew about my videos and would tease me. he teased me because he was curious how feet could turn anyone on. so we engaged in some foot play just for "kicks" and turns out hes got a total foot fetish now. haha Beside EVERY girl wants a guy who will give her foot rubs whenever she wants!!!!!

Well, lesson learned, Mind'n'Ruins is /great/ at giving people foot fetishes

Mind'n'Ruins wrote:so we engaged in some foot play just for "kicks" and turns out hes got a total foot fetish now. haha Beside EVERY girl wants a guy who will give her foot rubs whenever she wants!!!!!

That's funny and yes you can teach people to enjoy playing feet. I guess most people can get over the feet are gross reflex and when they do they find feet are fun.

I just found a new foot friend and I started it by saying I wanted to draw on her foot with a pen and make a cool temporary tattoo, then after I started I just admitted I think girls feet are the coolest thing ever so what I wanted to share here was the idea of asking the girl can I draw a temp tattoo on your foot as an opener for touching rights. It works.

I say if anyone is in the closet with a foot fetish, get out of there ! There is no reason to be hiding it. and if it's bothering you cause it's really intense you might find like I have that after several minutes of playing feet it goes away you will be asking what was that intense attraction about? and want it back.