Affecting my relationship?

Hello,
I am new to this board. I was wondering if my significant other's ED problem has anything to do with not making me feel "wanted or desired" and if so, to what degree? I've only been living with my BF for about a year. And very few times we have had sexual relationship. I"m quite frustrated as I do enjoy kissing, foreplay and just being approached, desired and made love to. I really don't need the penetration but I do need for him to desire me. He says he just doesn't want to feel the pressure of not being able to satisfy me fully. He's also mentioned in the past that he's never been really much of a kisser...is this every man?

I don't think he's really that all into me, but swears he wants to marry me in the future. I'm 49 and very healthy. I"m quite frustrated and am thinking of leaving this relationship. I do love him, but don't feel at times this will work. He's satisfied with just cuddling every night and that Is it.

Any suggestions.

I think your best option, besides leaving these relationships(if you are truly unsatisfied), is to try to get your BF to see someone about this. From everything you have written it does not sound like its a problem that cannot be solved, the only thing is , does your Bf really want to solve it.

has he seen a dr about it? i know im pretty embarrassed myself about going to a dr about possibly having ED....

also maybe consider a couples counsler instead of just leaving?