Question on love TW for defined roles

Recently I read a thread on here discussing how someone in their system fell in love with a seemingly random man. The emotions of the other person in the system began to overflow and confuse the host.

My question is this; how would your system deal with conflicting love interests? Assume the host is dating someone, but another member of the system loves somebody who has shown interest in them.

How would you handle that?
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I don't really care much to know about how the "system" deals with it, but I'll go ahead and tell you what I do. I do whatever the hell I want. Dunno if you've read her initial post, but she mentioned one of "us" forming a "messed up relationship with another girl online." LOL. That was me.

Amanda, herself, is generally asexual, actually. I don't know why, but she is not interested in people at all. I am a lesbian. If I see a girl I want, I take her. I'm not really one to consider everyone elses feelings. That also holds true for someone else. I'm the strongest here. I have pretty much most of the power, everyone else is pretty much just weak. So I can call the shots when I want. So lucky for everyone else, I really don't care what they do, either. They can go have relationships with men or someone else, so long as I get to have the ones I want.

Don't know what Amanda thinks about it, though.

Wow, that made me sound like a huge bitch. Promise I'm not

Thank you for your response!

Hmm, that's interesting.
What if one of the other's relationships was interfering with your relationship with a girl? Would you try and talk it out first or just do whatever?

Hmm, that's a big question, Aemeya. But I can definitely answer, because it's happened. Back when we were in high school, I had a girlfriend at the time, while Amanda was forming a relationship/friendship with this guy. I didn't really care, and I actually egged it on when she didn't know lol. I'm quite good at keeping everything separate. My girlfriend didn't know anything about her "relationship" with her male friend. So long as I keep everyone in the dark, it really doesn't matter what happens. She doesn't need people anyways, so I don't really see the harm in it.

Now, if a girlfriend I had happened to find out there was someone else, I'd just lie and say they were being paranoid. I'm quite good at manipulation, if I do say so myself. But that will never happen, because I really am that good at controlling everything and making sure no one knows things they don't need to.

Edit: You know what's kind of hilarious? I can feel her right now, she keeps trying to push herself forward so she can say something, but I'm pushing her back. Hehe. She's a bit stronger than before. Guess it's my fault for letting her become aware of things I did. Damnit, I ruined all my plans.

Thank you very much, that answers my question quite thoroughly. （＾∇＾）

I guess it would make sense to keep others in the dark, rather than confront them.

Not a problem Though I've been told I'm not exactly a good "role model" haha, so maybe someone else will pipe up and give some of their input.

OK I'll keep that in mind. xDDD

I apologize, Aemeya. I tried to stop her, but I couldn't. And look at the wonderful mess she created while I was unable to control her. She loves doing this doesn't she?

Haha. Yes, yes I do. You asked for this, Amanda, so I'm giving you what you want. And eventually you will get so overwhelmed with it, you'll start ignoring and denying everything like the last two times you tried to think about us.

Jesus christ, I'm hijacking your thread, I'm sorry! She won't let me NOT let her keep that in, though.

Anyways, apparently she doesn't know this, but I did know about her "girlfriend." I am generally asexual, but I do occasionally have relationships. The male in question was my "best friend" at the time. And while I wasn't completely comfortable with the relationship with the girl, I went along with it anyways, because I'm just generally submissive in nature, and I have a hard time speaking up. But it absolutely bothers me when she feels she can just do whatever she wants. Her "messed up relationship" with that girl was NOT OK. I'm honestly surprised that girl didn't threaten legal action towards me. ****EDIT: Sorry, the relationship that was not ok, was a messed up one she established with another girl online. I went along with her girlfriend in real life, but the one that was not ok was online based. Though a little more than that, too.****

Maybe that's why I don't get involved with people, because it's too unpredictable, scary, and just not worth it.

Thank you, Amanda. Sorry that my question seems to have caused an inner war. (-｡-;

I'm thankful to hear both sides of the story, though!

That's ok. Seems like lately a lot of things are causing a war. I feel like she's punishing me for wanting to know about things.

It's only punishment if you take it that way. She's tried this crap TWO times in the past. And whenever she got a little closer, she ran away from us again. I'm just making sure you are ready and won't just ignore and deny like the last times.

Ah. Well, I'm going to refrain from posting in this thread anymore, probably shouldn't have in the first place. Once again, I apologize Aemeya, and I hope some other members of the forum will come and tell you about their experiences and/or views on the question. Have a wonderful night.