Not Exactly Sure What To Do might be triggering

Hello Everyone
I'm not sure what to do a friend of Gray Wolf's(The Core) is giving her a hard time about things she has no memory of I want to yell at her friend but I don't see that as being helpful she started dating a very nice person and friend keeps giving her a hard time about dating telling her that with her DID and PTSD she can't date that it will be best if she stays single that she should not try to live a normal life that she's too messed up to live a normal life
It has upset Gray Wolf(The Core) so much she went to her secret world and won't leave her secret world I want her friend to be nicer to her after all everyone deserves to have a normal life it shouldn't matter what the person lives with
Her friend told Gray WolfThe Core) she has to decide trying to have a normal life or having them as a friend they also told her if she picks a normal life over having them as a friend they will call her C and say she's not taking her meds which she is taking her meds and tell her C she is harming herself which she's not doing I just don't know what to do
I want to yell at her friend but I need to keep her safe
Any advice will be great
Thank you
Thunder

This person doesnt sound like a very good friend. Friends should be supportive not discouraging. And to disprove this judgemental additude, I met and fell in love with someone in the middle of living with DID and PTSD. I was diagnosed around the same time I married. I have had many bad times since I married but my husband and I live a happy life together dispite all of my (and his) diagnosis. It is very amazing being able to have someone there for me the way my husband is. And this friend seems to be the crazy one to want to prevent someone from embracing a love life. Of course there will be difficulties. As is with all relationships but that shouldn't mean she should quit trying all together. It takes a very wonderful special person to be invested in someone with a dx of DID but I found one, so have many others. So find new friends.

You want to keep her safe... great. Get her away from that "friend" is my advice. What kind of "friend" manipulates someone like that.... not a very good one. Jeez. What a nasty individual.

New friend. Or less time with that one... he sounds mean.