What's up with that feeling?

InfinitD wrote: If a T ever told me NOT to talk about something, I would leave them immediately - What is therapy for if not to talk about what's bothering you? If I just wanted lectures and conjecture, I'd take a class.

Sounds like the person that diagnosed me. That is why I refuse to see him again.

InfinitD wrote:My T would never presume to stand by her own interpretation of my feelings if I didn't agree!

Mine did that a few times, and I gave her the time of the day. Remains to be seen if she got the message. I don't think so, but I think she will make an effort. I saw her try. Maybe If I can train her to be a good T...

Thanks for support guys! I'm just taking a break from Ts for a bit. I know there are good ones out there, I just don't know how to see it.
I finally figured out, that shaking means bad, I just start shaking during touchy conversations, I thought it was a happy feeling, and two days later, I'm like hey, that sucked, I wasn't happy I was scared.

Okay, so it's okay/normal to talk about yourself/experiences. I'll have to write that down so I can remember it. I thought there was something wrong with me. I told them how I felt like parts of me was 'stuck' in very particular points in the past, and I got the whole there's something wrong with you from two Ts, the third T mostly liked to talk on, and on about herself and ignored the question. I was really embarrassed I couldn't move on.

It helps to see how you guys would react to the same/similar situation. Or what is okay to demand in therapy.

Okay, I got some really good things to put on my list of questions for when I feel up to going for another bout' of interviews. Feeling good about this. Thank you!

Oh my gosh, Borg! You've been unlucky with your therapists. That comment "there's something wrong with you" made me chuckle. Well duh! You went to therapy...it wasn't because you though you was fine! Lol, what does that therapist expect?! Did she actually read the job description??? I hope you find a decent therapist next time, you've had your share of bad ones. X

UNBELIEVABLE!!!

Yeah, I really blame myself for their behavior. Maybe if I said things differently? Or not tell them so much? Or be so confused, and hopeless. I don't have a good sense of people if you know what I mean. Like I can't tell if something/someone is good, okay, or bad, unless violence involved, then I know it's bad or at least not okay. The whole verbal interactions or nuances are a loss for me until it compiles enough,then I'm like, hey!
But definitely won't work with friends anymore. (Not my friends so to speak, but one T friend with the other friend, they are friends for a reason).

Gosh no. It's not you. It's bad therapy and bad therapists getting off on power.