kerry

hi my name is kerry and i want to ask a question

what do you do when the man you go to see doesnt no who you are? he thought i was alice and it was me and it made me feel a little sad

I can understand how that makes you feel sad. I often worry about if my younger ones decide to talk to my T how they will feel if they are not recognized. Is this the first time you have spoken to the man you see? Do you feel ok with saying who you are when you decide to talk to him? Just so he doesn't make a mistake again that will make you sad?

Sam

I would tell him who you are, because he already knows there is a few of you. I think it makes things harder if he thinks you're somebody else. I look like my sister, when we was little girls people kept thinking I was her, so I just said who I am and then it was ok. X

bourbon wrote:hi my name is kerry and i want to ask a question

what do you do when the man you go to see doesnt no who you are? he thought i was alice and it was me and it made me feel a little sad

Hello Kerry

Maybe next time you see the man you can introduce yourself? Do you think you could try that? You could start by saying hello and that your name is kerry and then tell him a little bit about yourself like how old you are and what colours you like and what foods you like. I'm sure he will be happy to meet you. It's a bit hard for him sometimes because there are lots of people and so sometimes he needs your help to know who he is talking to. I think you will be able to do a good job to help him by introducing yourself.

Just wanted to say Hi.

Hey Kerry, I'm Kerry too. It sometimes makes me sad when people don't recognise me and think I'm someone else too.

I think maybe you should introduce yourself too.

It's nice to meet you, hun.

Hi Kerry. :: BIG HUG ::
I can see why that would make you sad. It would make me sad too. I think I remember bourbon mentioning something about making up name cards so that even if you felt too shy to say your name you could show him the card with your name on it and that way he would know. I'm sure he WANTS to know you... what you do think of that idea?
Brandic

Hey, it's Bourbon - I just wanna say thanks to all who have replied. I'm just leaving the questions open for Kerry herself.