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David/Tommy

Postby NicS » Mon Jul 25, 2011 7:37 pm

David has an imaginary friend named Tommy, his "Perfect" gay boyfriend. He's lonely I guess. So every once in a while, when David is gonna help me out, this Boston-Accented "Tommy" answers for him.

Do you think its fair for me to go out and get a boyfriend for him with a girlfriend on the side? Or is that too cruel for those involved?
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Re: David/Tommy

Postby Demon Lilith » Mon Jul 25, 2011 8:33 pm

As loathe as you might be to believe it, it sounds like Tommy could be another alter created by David.

You mean to date two people at once? I don't think that's a good idea. If everyone involved is ok with it, including both dates, I guess. But you'd have to be very open about it.
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Re: David/Tommy

Postby LinaeveWorkman » Tue Jul 26, 2011 1:28 am

I actually know two couples who have open relationships. As long as EVERYONE is okay with it (and I think that would mean everyone in your system as well, just in case one objects to 'cheating'), it works out fairly well.

I tend to be very distrustful of women (actually a part of me pops up randomly and wants to scratch their faces off when they get near my husband, but that's another story... :wink: ) so it wouldn't work out in my marriage.

I wish you luck in whatever you decide to do! :mrgreen:
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Re: David/Tommy

Postby NicS » Wed Jul 27, 2011 2:01 am

But 6 out of 7 people in the system aren't gay. So how do we handle that one?
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Re: David/Tommy

Postby LinaeveWorkman » Wed Jul 27, 2011 2:13 am

NicS wrote:But 6 out of 7 people in the system aren't gay. So how do we handle that one?


Maybe if you made a gay friend? It wouldn't have to be a true-blue relationship. Perhaps a friendship would suffice, so David wouldn't feel alone. He will have someone to relate to, at least.
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