Want to be able to accept....

I always thought what cause me to have DID is emotion abuses. It seems like I have to accept now there are some sexual abuses got involve. I just need to speak it out to help me accept all the things that happen to me. I just get tired for all the things that have been happen to me. I hope I will strong enough to start things over again.

Thanks,
Ray

Hi Ray,

I'm sorry to hear that you went through sexual abuses too and that you are having a hard time of coming to terms with it. It is hard. It is very tiring to learn about what awful abuses have happened but it shows that you are gaining strength to be ready to confront this now. You are healing and this is a good thing.

I hope you have a therapist or someone supportive that you can talk to and be supported by in this difficult time...

I hope you're doing well after learning about all that hun.

I hope you will keep in mind that anything that happened has already happened. You have already survived it. You may need to revisit it and make new choices about how to deal with it and its aftermath, but it is not happening right now, and that is the good news. I wish you the best.