I'm TERRIBLE and DISGUSTING! *poss. triggering*

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Well I'm mostly disgusted with you for allowing her to cheat on her fiance. Alters will do what they want to do when they are out, no matter what the others say. You were an enabler to Nadine on more than one occasion. You should have told Nadine she was an alter. You don't have to go as far as therapist would and offer counseling, just tell her the facts.

Irene obviously has her own problems. She won't listen to any alters or listen to you when you were trying to warn her about her alters. She really needs to seek help from a psychologist or at least someone else who isn't you. Irene doesn't have a stable system and seems to be denial about having DID herself. There's a lot of info here on how to better communicate with one's alters here if Irene is willing to take the first step and learn more about herself, the others, and her condition.

P.S. can you stop typing in bold it's a bit hard to read

Jef

You can act as a therapist all you want I would assume but you're not one. The biggest thing is that your friend needs more actual help but from the stand-point of where I am looking, you are just caught in the middle of something different.

I am a split personality. As well as other splits we all have needs and desires. I love intercourse but I am actually trying to cut down on it but the fact is, splits have needs. I'm more sticking up for Nadine saying that it's okay that it happened. If I were Nadine I would be feeling the same way. I have desires and trust me, if someone took those desires and ignored my needs, I would retaliate and destroy as much as I could of the Cores life. So doing what you did might have helped.

Just take it slow? Be there for your friend and you can always be friends with the splits as well.

~Yuriko