Another Sex/Masturbation Topic (Could be T/graphic)

There have been a few discussions about sex and the problems/solutions you all face in the bedroom. So I hope it isn't trite of me to start another one.

This is for those of you who have differences of opinion (libido) with regards to sex and who have to share a system?

Have you ever had any conflicts arise, or problems that needed immediate attention, because of such different feelings/needs?

And what kind of subject is masturbation in systems with members who do that/want to do that?

Sorry if anyone finds this out of taste, haha.

we do have alters in here who are. Namely Natascha and Julie. Their lives revove around sex but it's against our rules Though they are not the only alters in here that want to get laid, they're just the only ones without the impulse control to respect. The most of us are willing to wait and it doesn't cause that many problems.

David.

Does Catey share memories with everyone? As in, if Natascha did something against her wishes, did she have memories of it afterward?

no, she doesn't have memory of it after it happens.

oh I see. Well thanks for sharing.

Also, and... I have deja vu that I've already posted this somewhere, lol. Hopefully not.

Anyway, for female alters in male bodies or male alters in female bodies:

If you have a sex drive at all, do you find that you still have it even though your gender is misaligned with the body's? What kinds of problems, if any, has that presented for you? How did you get over them? Or does being misaligned kill your sex drive?

Collingwood wrote:Anyway, for female alters in male bodies or male alters in female bodies:

If you have a sex drive at all, do you find that you still have it even though your gender is misaligned with the body's? What kinds of problems, if any, has that presented for you? How did you get over them? Or does being misaligned kill your sex drive?

I feel i somehow fit in this. I'm trans (yeah, and with a crew of others. only one of them is annoyed at the idea of me transitioning)
if not feel free to tell me to shut it.

it's annoying, but honestly it only kills my sex drive when i'm being rudely reminded im still phyiscally female
tyler doesn't seem to mind either. Actually i think it bothers him less.


but our only real conflict is that i have a boyfriend (i'm pansexual) and everyone else likes girls only.
but for the most part my personal life is respected (except by morgan who likes to intrude at bad times to annoy me. Girl needs a kick once in awhile i swear, even though i could never hurt her)

watching&waiting wrote:

Collingwood wrote:Anyway, for female alters in male bodies or male alters in female bodies:

If you have a sex drive at all, do you find that you still have it even though your gender is misaligned with the body's? What kinds of problems, if any, has that presented for you? How did you get over them? Or does being misaligned kill your sex drive?

I feel i somehow fit in this. I'm trans (yeah, and with a crew of others. only one of them is annoyed at the idea of me transitioning)
if not feel free to tell me to shut it.

it's annoying, but honestly it only kills my sex drive when i'm being rudely reminded im still phyiscally female
tyler doesn't seem to mind either. Actually i think it bothers him less.


but our only real conflict is that i have a boyfriend (i'm pansexual) and everyone else likes girls only.
but for the most part my personal life is respected (except by morgan who likes to intrude at bad times to annoy me. Girl needs a kick once in awhile i swear, even though i could never hurt her)

when you're physically reminded? As in, when you have to have sex? That's interesting about Tyler. Why do you think it doesn't bother him as much? Or, if he wants to answer himself (or doesn't want to comment too lol thats fine).

If you can't already tell, I have some issues in my system with the same kinds of conflict. But this is all in its very early stages still. So I thought hearing from others in a similar situation might lighten things up. Things get pretty dramatic over here, lol.

Collingwood wrote:when you're physically reminded? As in, when you have to have sex? That's interesting about Tyler. Why do you think it doesn't bother him as much? Or, if he wants to answer himself (or doesn't want to comment too lol thats fine).

If you can't already tell, I have some issues in my system with the same kinds of conflict. But this is all in its very early stages still. So I thought hearing from others in a similar situation might lighten things up. Things get pretty dramatic over here, lol.

Rude reminder = pms
He can't handle it worth a crap. Adds to general stuff going on.

And frankly, I just don't care about that aspect of the body. It's never really occurred to me why I should, sure it's off but it's there may as well use it [And no, I'm not promoting prostitution or anything like that...]

I... um... Ignore his boyfriend. He's a nice guy, we get along fine, but I can't see the attraction much (though I suppose if Alex put something girly on and longer hair he could make a cute girl, but that'll never happen.)EDIT: wtf man? thanks, i think? (felt this wasn't worth a double post)
Not that they aren't a good thing that happened to each other.

The rule here is "everyone must be OK with the significant other." Not necessarily see the attraction (would be difficult since we have very different tastes in girls ) but like the other person and not have alarms going off about 'em. Might help a little conflict.

[Sorry, I heard my name]

Collingwood wrote:

Anyway, for female alters in male bodies or male alters in female bodies:

If you have a sex drive at all, do you find that you still have it even though your gender is misaligned with the body's? What kinds of problems, if any, has that presented for you? How did you get over them? Or does being misaligned kill your sex drive?

I'm a guy in w woman's body. It has no affect on my libido. This body may be female but inside I still have a male body and male equipment. I choose to keep any type of sexual activity inside for this reason.
-Craig

It bugs me sometimes, but not often. I don't front all that much, but if I do I try to make sure she's not on her period
(there may or may not have been a tampon issue once - I can neither confirm nor deny this. ). The good part is that I've got 24/7 access to an awesome rack. But seriously... yeah, like Craig, I keep sexual activity inside.
-Brook

TwilightInsight wrote: if I do I try to make sure she's not on her period
(there may or may not have been a tampon issue once - I can neither confirm nor deny this. ).

find a girl to help you with that one
morgan (one of his few 'not boys' )