DID does not make us incapable

Well they won't let me have the kids bak! bunch idiots they wnt even tlk to me coz having did makes u incapable apparantly am so angry to the point im getting irrational. Seriously this is my punishment for having #######5 childhood and survivng it! arg sorry im ranting i no im just totally upset cnt even think straight. We have done everything they asked everything and still not good enough they want to see M they arent noway she'l tear them apart for wot ther puttin us thru rite now. They wonder y ppl wid did dnt tlk about it bcoz ppl like them enjoy making things worse bcoz the past wasnt bad enough they want to damage the good things to.
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I'm so sorry, guys

Where do things go from here?

you are so right DID does not make us incapable infact DID is a highly functioning protective mecanisum. DID is usually formed in response to intolorable and extremely traumatic situations. not everyone has the ability to dissociate and those that do and develop DID are far from incapable infact they are human beings who have been able to create a complex and intricate protective mechanisum that allows them to tolerate the intolorable honestly i think this makes us some of the most capable humans in this world! i am sorry they took your boy i can not begin to imagine the pain and distress this is causing you. my partner had both her children taken from her because of her DID or rather the behaviour that accompanied DID such as low mood, out bursts, emotional instibility ect i do not know the reasons for your boy being taken but i hope that you can hold onto hope and lean on other parts of you through this tough time. to go through sh*t life experiences, develop DID and then have to live with the possible consequences of both these things is a kick in the teeth, extremely unfair, and frustrating. really i think the best response to your post would be whole lot of four letter words about the injustice of it all. i am truly sorry you have to go through this $#%^ and i hope you have the support you need while things are messed up.

hey canolime we don't no they wnt tlk t us bout it they just wanna provoke me t get M which aint gioin happen. im tired of it all we done everything they ask n M even kept on down low 4 2 wks no fightin shouting insultin nothing bit her tongue which is hard 4 her but we gotta try everything t get em bk really.

Hey Misty17 it was bcoz of the same reason as ur partner but now its bcoz my alter is slighly protective etc tht n they dnt no anything bout DID. trying t not giv up on hope but tbh its just aggrivating us both now and M is tryin t keep us (well me) afloat and positive but givin up now they set u up t fail i hav t kids in 2 different locations its hard gettin t see them esp wid my disorder the distant n not havin loads money 4 travel so its a fail constantly but they dnt meet us half way n say we'l bring ur kids t u. bunch idiots lot them. n thanks i do get support most of it from here coz u guys understand did better then any1 else around me.
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ihavenothing wrote:n M even kept on down low 4 2 wks no fightin shouting insultin nothing bit her tongue which is hard 4 her but we gotta try everything t get em bk really.

Aww Good job, Maria.

Any updates?

I'm sorry to hear about the situation you are in, I hate people that do this kind of thing due to they I have no idea what we have been through and most of the time they don't have a clue about DID but to due to there immaturity and being close minded they treat us like crap.

None of this is your fault please remember that, no matter how hard it gets or they beat you down emotionally.
You're the better one here and you are the one who is doing something about your DID not them and I know this isn't the best advice but when I am in a really bad situation I just blank it out or one of my others take over.
I hope you get to see your boy soon.
Best Wishes.
JoshAlters.

Updates are as follow i found a therapist but trying to figure out how to pay for it since i dont work am not allowed the kids over night at all. i no this disorder isnt my fault i am who i am and maria is who she is and alicia just wont come out at all bcoz maria told her she cnt rite now nt wid all this happening we dnt need anymore reason for them to say sum $#%^ about us. we refuse to b punished for survivin im meeting wid the lawyer tomorro got 3 appointments wid drs and mental health workers and meetin th new therapist and maria is even considering coming out to them to show them what she is like but iv told her aslong as the environment surrounding us is ok and thers nothing to provoke her then thats fine she needs to talk bout how this is affectin her aswell as me. its just really stressing they told me 3weeks which has now turned into 6 and they still no were near an answer on if i can have them back im missing my 1 year old taking his first steps bcoz of them and my 2 yr old turns 3 next month and starts nursery in jan am i goin miss tht 2 bcoz these idiots.
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ihavenothing wrote:we refuse to b punished for survivin

I know If the kids weren't in danger, all of this is just pointless, and is adding to the hurt you've already got

How did the meeting and appointments go?

ihavenothing wrote:im missing my 1 year old taking his first steps bcoz of them and my 2 yr old turns 3 next month and starts nursery in jan