Apparently I made a mistake...

About a month back, I told my one of my friends, Alex, about my alters. I'd been wondering for quite some time if I really should tell her, but I decided to do so in the end, partly because she was the first one to find out about me having asperger, and she handled it very well, so I thought she'd be able to handle this too. And I thought, she did, at first, thought lately it's become obvious it was a big mistake telling her...

The other day, we were at a hamburger bar, when Sari wanted to front (big hamburger-lover ) and she got almost pissed off and told me that she absolutely didn't want Sari to be out, which led to both me and Sari getting offended, and Sari therefore came out just to prove that he didn't care what she thought. Then she got all cold and ignored him, didn't even look at him. Sari got really, really hurt

Anyway, then nothing more happened until earlier today. Lucifer was fronting, because he was talking to T over msn, when she wrote to him. And she was really... well, rude. She started mocking him and calling him "Mr Satan" and stuff. Lucifer told her that he wasn't "Mr Satan" (he's not THAT Lucifer, Lucifer is just his name), but she didn't listen and just went all "Oh, I just wanted to be polite to mr Lucifer. Aren't you gonna get a new body soon, mr Satan? Isn't that what you do? I know that you're really Helena" and yaddayaddayadda, so in the end she pretty much ended up having made clear that Lucifer was a pathetic loser and I was insane and in grave need of help.

I really don't know what to do after this... Should I just break off contact? I'm really pissed off right now

Wow. I'm guessing at some point, she seemed like a nice person... but she's sure not acting like it, now Did you ask her what her problem is?

So... she thinks you're faking?

I would have one discussion with her, asking her why she's being such a b**** ... you know, just in case she doesn't understand what's really going on. If she's still acting the same way, after that (which I'm guessing she will ), I wouldn't talk to her again. You don't need her upsetting you guys, all the time, like that.

BrokenWings wrote:he's not THAT Lucifer, Lucifer is just his name

By the way, that's nice to know

I read this earlier, but it made me so mad, Sabrina was triggered. No biggie tho, she's totally cooler than me
I won't deny that! -Sabrina

BrokenWings wrote: About a month back, I told my one of my friends, Alex, about my alters. I'd been wondering for quite some time if I really should tell her, but I decided to do so in the end, partly because she was the first one to find out about me having asperger, and she handled it very well, so I thought she'd be able to handle this too. And I thought, she did, at first, thought lately it's become obvious it was a big mistake telling her...

Your reasoning makes perfect sense to me.

BrokenWings wrote:The other day, we were at a hamburger bar, when Sari wanted to front (big hamburger-lover ) and she got almost pissed off and told me that she absolutely didn't want Sari to be out, which led to both me and Sari getting offended, and Sari therefore came out just to prove that he didn't care what she thought. Then she got all cold and ignored him, didn't even look at him. Sari got really, really hurt

:O WHAT?! Why?! (I know you can’t answer that, but wtf man!) Why didn’t she want Sari to be out?! :O I'm not surprised you guys were offended, I would have been absolutely livid & more than likely smacked her with the ######6 burger.

Hey Sari! I love burgers too! Aren’t they the most awesome thing ever? I hope you’re ok, & she didn’t upset you too much. She sounds like a royal bitch to be honest. I wouldn’t have cared what she thought either. What a knob! – Kerry.

BrokenWings wrote:Anyway, then nothing more happened until earlier today. Lucifer was fronting, because he was talking to T over msn, when she wrote to him. And she was really... well, rude. She started mocking him and calling him "Mr Satan" and stuff. Lucifer told her that he wasn't "Mr Satan" (he's not THAT Lucifer, Lucifer is just his name), but she didn't listen and just went all "Oh, I just wanted to be polite to mr Lucifer. Aren't you gonna get a new body soon, mr Satan? Isn't that what you do? I know that you're really Helena" and yaddayaddayadda, so in the end she pretty much ended up having made clear that Lucifer was a pathetic loser and I was insane and in grave need of help.

OMG!! I actually am speechless. What an enormous prick. I'm not sure what to say. She is a total asshole by the sound of it. surely if you’re curious, then just ask questions rather than attack rather than what she seems to be doing? Poor Lucifer

It’s normal for people who are scared to attack. We’ve experienced similar in the past. Ditch her & move on is what I think - Sabrina

How you feeling Lucifer? Hope you’re ok? - Kerry

BrokenWings wrote:I really don't know what to do after this... Should I just break off contact? I'm really pissed off right now

I’d have to confront her to be honest. I would need to know exactly:
a) why the hell she is being such an enormous prick
b) Where the ###$ she gets off judging people & speaking to others like that
c) Whether she thinks that by doing this she is being the “friend” she claims to be.

I hope you are all ok & not letting her make you feel too bad. Unfortunately, I find, being a multiple is sometimes ironically lonely. Ker is soooo friendly & bubbly & it breaks my heart sometimes that she doesn't have the amount of friends she would if she were a singlet. People are so narrow minded & as Sabrina said, people tend to attack the unknown, like animals who are scared. It hurts when people turn out to not be who we expect them to be, but I honestly think you should talk to her & find out why she was being such a prick. did she think you were joking maybe?


oOOO!! i just had a thought. Maybe she thinks being a multiple means the alters are evil & she was scared Sari would attack her with the burger?! - Ker

much hugs & love
Ker, Sabrina & Mara

I'm so sorry this is happening to usounds like shes passively telling u she doesnt believe u.

I lost a friend one time for telling about the others. Prob was she was fascinated and kept triggering them to come out at work. NOT GOOD.

But not everyone is like that. I just told another friend a couple days ago and it went a lot better than i thought.

Hey Sari! I love burgers too! Aren’t they the most awesome thing ever? I hope you’re ok, & she didn’t upset you too much. She sounds like a royal bitch to be honest. I wouldn’t have cared what she thought either. What a knob! – Kerry.

Hamburgers are like God's gift to man I am fine, thanks for asking. I just hope I'll never have to see her again. If she can't accept the rest of us, then she really has no reason to be with Helena at all, it's not like we're gonna go away because of her stupid opinions, and apparently she thinks Helena is a big liar, so what's the point of even talking to her? - Sari

How you feeling Lucifer? Hope you’re ok? - Kerry

Oh, I'm quite okay. Yesterday I was royally pissed off, but I've calmed down by now. I just find it so completely childish to assume that because my name is Lucifer, I must be Satan. And if I was Satan, would it really be smart of her to piss me off, one could wonder... - Lucifer


Another thing that really annoys me is that later last night, she wrote to me, and acted as if nothing had happened. I was already angry because of the way she had acted earler, and tired as well, so I was really short to her and barely answered (didn't feel like taking a confrontation in the middle of the night, probably just should have blocked her). However, we got into a discussion, and she told me "I know you're going through. Everyone's like different persons at time: one at school, one at home, one with their friends, but you're taking it too far", and I tried to explain it wasn't like that for me, that this was something completely different, but she refused to even listen Then she told me she wanted the real me back and so on. I am the real me. The alters aren't me, but no, she won't listen to that as well. She's hopeless - Helena

BrokenWings wrote:it's not like we're gonna go away because of her stupid opinions, and apparently she thinks Helena is a big liar, so what's the point of even talking to her? - Sari

There is no point

BrokenWings wrote:And if I was Satan, would it really be smart of her to piss me off, one could wonder... - Lucifer

Exactly!

I don't understand how she can be so... ugh... I can't even find an appropriate word Is it just me, or does anyone else find her mocking you, a really weird thing to do? I mean, what exactly was she trying to accomplish?

BrokenWings wrote:Then she told me she wanted the real me back and so on. I am the real me. The alters aren't me, but no, she won't listen to that as well. She's hopeless - Helena

What "real" you? You've been the same person, the entire time. She's just been introduced to a few other people. You're still you


I'm sorry you guys lost (what seemed like) a friend

mosiacmonkey wrote:oOOO!! i just had a thought. Maybe she thinks being a multiple means the alters are evil & she was scared Sari would attack her with the burger?! - Ker

Death by patty

canolime wrote:

mosiacmonkey wrote:oOOO!! i just had a thought. Maybe she thinks being a multiple means the alters are evil & she was scared Sari would attack her with the burger?! - Ker

Death by patty

EXACTLY!!