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Re: I adore the alters.

Postby RoseMarry Anne » Mon Jul 05, 2010 12:27 pm

Tell C I said Hello! :) well I am glad that you are able to talk to yours in such a friendly way! My partner just has a thing about not being in control. I just need to pick the right times to try to talk to her about these kinds of things lol!
Yeah a notebook is good, Me and her had a notebook that we were writing to eachother in and one of her alters(we think it was the child) came out and scribbled all over itt! lol.
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Re: I adore the alters.

Postby canolime » Mon Jul 05, 2010 12:39 pm

Hmm... it's not always so friendly :lol: Mostly, but not always. But we do talk all the time :D

You could tell your partner that if she were to start talking with them, she might actually have more control, because she would know more of what's going on. Of course I can't completely take my own advice because I have to control things, but it does sound like okay advice, doesn't it? :lol:

RoseMarry Anne wrote:Yeah a notebook is good, Me and her had a notebook that we were writing to eachother in and one of her alters(we think it was the child) came out and scribbled all over itt! lol.

Oh, that's funny :lol:
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Re: I adore the alters.

Postby RoseMarry Anne » Mon Jul 05, 2010 12:44 pm

Hey! communication is still a good thing! lol even if its not always nice! :P
Yes it does! It sounds like very good advice and I think I know exactly how I'm going to bring this idea up to her!
I just need her to be in a good mood first haha.
I've also heard that sometimes when alters don't have names, some people give them names?
I was wondering about that because I feel so horrible that the child does not have a name.
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Re: I adore the alters.

Postby canolime » Mon Jul 05, 2010 12:49 pm

Good! Okay, is she in a good mood, often? :P

Yep. If an alter doesn't have a name, someone can give them one (or even just a temporary name).
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Re: I adore the alters.

Postby RoseMarry Anne » Mon Jul 05, 2010 12:52 pm

She actually is! lol. Well..sometimes. I just need the right moment to kinda bring it up lol!
Thats actually good! the next time I see the child which is quite often because it doesn't speak, its only able to nod or shake its head and suck its thumb, Maybe I will ask it if it would like a name.
:D! sound like a good idea?
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Re: I adore the alters.

Postby canolime » Mon Jul 05, 2010 12:56 pm

Good :D

Yeah, that sounds like a very good idea! :D
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Re: I adore the alters.

Postby RoseMarry Anne » Mon Jul 05, 2010 12:59 pm

Yay! it actually really makes me excited.
I like the thought of being able to give the child a name (:
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Re: I adore the alters.

Postby canolime » Mon Jul 05, 2010 1:07 pm

:mrgreen:
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