should he be let out? *TRIGGERING*

cherry here. i need some advise from some experts other than our ######6 therapist! here is some back groung information. the therapist wants jon who is locked up tight to come out of his room to join in the recovery proccess. jon is locked up for attacking me in my privates with a fork. kim had to go to the hospital for stitches. he is a rapest! and deserves to be locked up, but the therapist thinks otherwise. she wants him to agree to leave me alone and everyone else in the system too, and talk to us about why he did it and why he is so angry. i don't want her talking to him! he deserves to stay locked up forever! HE HAS SAID IF HE GETS OUT HE WILL DO WORSE TO ME THAN HE ALREADY HAS!

cherry

I understand where your therapist is coming from, but she REALLY needs to consider your safety and the safety of the rest of the group above any "road to recovery: plan

Would there be a way to just let him out for a little bit and then lock him up again? Then he could come out during therapy when you therapist can keep him from hurting you, then go back to his room afterward.

cherry here. only kim can lock and unlock the door and i don't think she will let him out either since jon hurt the body too. and kim is the host. i talked to the ######6 therapist today....finally after months of her asking us if i wanted to talk to her. she says she needs my help and jons help and everyone elses help in the system to be able to improve the system, meaning, we all have to work together. this will be hard since most of us hate each other. we have a chaotic system right now. she also says that she would never let him out unless he promised not to do anything to the system, but he wont agree to that the psycho he is. i'm not one for helping people, i just do my job of taking kims anger away and thats it. Why should i give a ###$ about everyone else? i'm a ######6 kid for gods sake. i'm 17. i care about myself and music and theres nothing wrong with that.

cherry


Hi, This is Simon. One of Kim's parts. This is the perfect place for me since I can not speak, all I do is write and take notes on the system. I have a question: How do we get the system to all get along with one another? Especially Kim, she has the least respect for us and we do everything for her. She sees us as nothing but trouble for her. One of the toughest parts is we have three very angry parts that fight constantly: a bitch, a narccissist, and a psychopath.

Any advise out there would be appreciated.

Thank you.



Simon

Because, Cherry, things are less "chaotic" when the system works together. That body is your only living space, and if none of you can work together, the body is useless. It's like living in a house no one takes care of. Eventually it falls down, Cherry. So soldier up, and learn to play nice with the others. You don't have to like them, but you do have to live with them, and a false peace is better than none. As for Jon, ###$ that guy. No self-mutiliating alters should be allowed out. Therapist wants to work with the rest of the system, thats fine, but Mr. Fork can sit in his room 'till Judgement Day.

@Simon: You all need to sit together, find a common goal, quit making excuses not to work together, and just ######6 do it. If the crew won't work, the ship will sink. Everyone in the system needs to get that through their thick heads and pull it together. And Kim definitely needs to stop living in La La Land when it comes to you guys. I've snapped at her a few times for it.

Maybe you don't have to let him out, but can you have someone speak for him, or deliver messages for him?

I also had a long period where we all hated each other and eventually found out we had more in common than we thought.

Kim shouldn't hate you guys. It's akin to her hating herself, since you all live in the same body.
You guys stepped in when she needed you the most. It's not your fault you ended up this way. But you
can do something about it now.
You guys need to find a solution and find out what it is exactly that's keeping you guys from working together.
Yes, there is chaos. Yes, things aren't going as smoothly as they could.
But you guys wouldn't be in this boat if it wasn't for some jerks out there that made you this way.
You guys need to stop blaming and hating each other and point it towards who made you go through this.
And even then, hate is like swollowing poison and hoping the other person gets hurt, but it can serve a purpose for
a while.

I hope one of you breaks the ice and others follow suit. Things are so much better when we're not fighting
with ourselves.
Good luck!!!

cherry here. i have started to talk to the therapist about some stuff and hopefully that will help with the others coming to therapy and talking about their $#%^. jon will get notes passed under his door in therapy and we will see if he answers back. kim will NOT be letting him out espsially with the recent activity with andrew. andrew wants jon out so they can cause trouble for kim and me together.

thanks for the advise, everyone.

cherry

dude. i know you older than me. im 14 but i just wanna say, im learning that we have to listen to what the alter is saying. Jon sounds like a bad guy but maybe he is hurting. i thought Norma was bad and made $#%^ happen but i am wrong. Norma is there to help me...maybe you should try talking to Jon. its good you doing notes and i agree dont let him out. he might hurt the others.. is there a way you can keep andrew and jon away from each other?

remember im new to this so dont get mad if im wrong. just tryin to help k...

-christina

hi christina. we are new here too. why would i get mad at you? i won't talk to jon, all he does is scream and yell about how he wants to hurt me again. he is crazy and i hope he never gets out!! if i get my way he never will!! our therapist think he is a protector like me and thinks he took a lot of the abuse but i don't care i did too and you don't see me stabbing the others in the privates with a fork!!

i have been following your thread with your part and "strangers." quite impressive that you and norma are working things out in such a short period of time. we have been in therapy for like eight years and we seem to never get anywhere.

do you know if you have any other parts? we have many, it's crazy!! i hope you don't, it's hell!! although i can be a huge part of the problem, i have major anger issues, but it's my job. but at least i don't go out and do what andrew does. did you read what i wrote about punching the guy in the nose? it was sooo cool, but as i have thought about it over the past few days, it was kind of a scary thing. i guess we could have been really hurt or killed even! but i didn't think about that when it was happening. i guess i just reacted.

thank you for the advise i will take it under consideration. all i am willing to do right now is talk to the therapist. she has a toe ring like me so that is pretty cool!

cherry


p.s. i hope you and norma keep getting along!

Im glad ur not mad. I guess I thought you would cuz im only 14 and ppl say kids are meant to be seen not heard. you know, that type thing. So anyways...

its me, norma, and one other. but I dont talk to the other one or anything cuz she is mute. She don't have feelings or at least she doesn't show them. She is kewl though. She doesn't give me or norma any feedback or even a listening ear to our problems.

Gross...sorry I got a pic in my mind when you talked about the fork. that was creepy. good thing u have trigger on the title.

Yeah, I read what you writed about punching the dude. Thats why I got suspended from school today for hitting a girl for breaking my ipod. but it was the real me too. Does your parents know about your alters? my mom thinks I am Norma...so does my counselr...ugh...i can't even think about it.

I have to go to bed early tonight since I got in trouble at school just to let you know. I wont be on late.

im sorry you have mean alters too