**RANT**

Hell yeah, rib shots while they're on the ground, good stuff. Nahhhh

It seems that there are people in your life who have chosen to manipulate you and hurt you purposefully. This entire situation appears to have been created in order to prey on your emotions and stir up old wounds. It's a difficult situation, but it's apparent that your mother and sister are not blind to what they are doing to you. I'm sorry to point that out, but we know exactly how to hurt those closest to us, do we not? Whether this is the norm in your family or an aberration, I hope that you can step back and see how juvenile (although painful) it is that they feel the need to create drama that impacts you so directly.

You have people who dearly love you and would not hurt you for the world, lark. The ones who derive pleasure from causing you pain don't deserve your affection or attention. Don't allow them that control over you. (((((HUGS)))))

How is this now Amber and others?
and how are you guys doing?

well there was another drama at the graduation itself where said friend was going to show up late. family said that her priorities were different and refused to leave the graduation in order to bring her a ticket but invited her over after the graduation. Friend never called never showed up, but apparently as angry as she was decided to text my ex boyfriend and tell him all sorts of nasty rumors. in which he proceeded to get pissed off and confront me on it.

Long story short it was a bunch of #######4 and I have washed my hands of it.

My family now believes me, (GRRRRR), and are pissed that they have been manipulated by her as well.

I am just angry that my word was not credible in their (my family and ex boyfriend) eyes and that they had to be treated like $#%^ by her first in order to believe me.

But it helped me to finish grieving and now I can be at peace and move on.