Protector Stuck In Front (Justin)

Hello everyone,
Justin speaking I believe we have quite a dilemma on our hands.
To begin we've had some trouble dealing with a certain trouble maker that you all may recall to be "R.L." She is also having trouble with controlling each of our outings. I believe I am currently "stuck" in front. And do not know how to go back. She used to have Co control with us. But now it seems I am going to the front way too often. I am stuck and I don't know how to regain my inner abilities. Is anyone else experiencing this trouble? I am quite terrified that I may become the new host and I do not wish for that to happen as Maria is quite a bit younger than me. She also does not speak with an accent and suddenly having to force myself not to speak in an accent is quite troublesome. Please if someone could assist us that would be much appreciated.
~Best Regards
Justin

Hyuukichan123 wrote:Hello everyone,
Justin speaking I believe we have quite a dilemma on our hands.
To begin we've had some trouble dealing with a certain trouble maker that you all may recall to be "R.L." She is also having trouble with controlling each of our outings. I believe I am currently "stuck" in front. And do not know how to go back. She used to have Co control with us. But now it seems I am going to the front way too often. I am stuck and I don't know how to regain my inner abilities. Is anyone else experiencing this trouble? I am quite terrified that I may become the new host and I do not wish for that to happen as Maria is quite a bit younger than me. She also does not speak with an accent and suddenly having to force myself not to speak in an accent is quite troublesome. Please if someone could assist us that would be much appreciated.
~Best Regards
Justin

Had Paul stuck out for ages and he's basically a protector/persecutor. He just got on with it. He didn't like it but he did it. I don't like it either. All I can think to do is make the best of it, get on with it and hope it's back to normal soon. Much Luck.

Maybe, too, if you can like communicate or somehow figure out what is causing the fear or hurt that is making the NEED for this "stuck out" situation... cuz if someone is scared or hurt or something... that could be why your, as a protector, are "stuck" out. There could be something acting as a trigger or a source of something distressing someone (or many someones) in your system - thus the NEED for a protector constantly to face this source/trigger.

Did anything change in your life? Like home, work, etc? Something new get brought into the house or office, etc? Did something happen to someone when they were out just before this "stuck" situation started? ((just trying to like spitball a few ideas))

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