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Is it okay for alters to date each other?

Postby TheKunisakiSystem » Sun Jul 09, 2017 10:04 pm

So, I'm Josh. One of the host (Aki)'s alters.
I may have kissed another alter named Tyler, and now I feel like I'm falling in love with him? Is this allowed? Will it cause any problems to Aki?
Just wanna find this out, before Aki finds out what we're doing. - Josh

Dx: DID, Depression, Generalized Anxiety

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Aki - Host
Christian - Protector
Troy - Protector
Crystal - Child
Gerard - Child
Iris - Inner Self Helper
Max - ???
Titanium - ???
Ian - ???
Glitch - Gatekeeper
Tyler - ???
Josh - ???
Taki - Animal
Sombra - Animal
Blurryface - Aggressive/SM
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Re: Is it okay for alters to date each other?

Postby dlantern » Mon Jul 10, 2017 5:59 pm

As a pop out relationship (outside yourself ) Is it a relationship from an alter you got from a relationship you still have? Either is pretty cool just wondering if you kissed the mirror or something lol if it was first thing I typed. We are made to be relational there is nothing wrong with that. It can have it's up and downs. I rather it be with someone but people these days are so hard to relate to having alters can really mess up things. I think it is best to stay away from most folks except a dude every now and again.
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Re: Is it okay for alters to date each other?

Postby ColouredLeaves » Tue Jul 11, 2017 3:28 am

Hi Josh. We have never had this situation personally, but I have read here of others who have. I think you should talk to Aki. If it is consensual there should be no problem. Are there others in your system who might be disturbed? I think it needs to be out in the open to avoid problems.
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Victoria, f
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Re: Is it okay for alters to date each other?

Postby TheKunisakiSystem » Tue Jul 11, 2017 8:01 am

ColouredLeaves wrote:Hi Josh. We have never had this situation personally, but I have read here of others who have. I think you should talk to Aki. If it is consensual there should be no problem. Are there others in your system who might be disturbed? I think it needs to be out in the open to avoid problems.
Heather


Aki's fine with it, no worries! And all the alters are fine with it.
Blurryface. . . not really. But he's aggressive anyways.
But. Yeh. - Josh

Dx: DID, Depression, Generalized Anxiety

The system:
Aki - Host
Christian - Protector
Troy - Protector
Crystal - Child
Gerard - Child
Iris - Inner Self Helper
Max - ???
Titanium - ???
Ian - ???
Glitch - Gatekeeper
Tyler - ???
Josh - ???
Taki - Animal
Sombra - Animal
Blurryface - Aggressive/SM
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