How do you treat your alters of an opposite sex?

Hello, I'm Billy (host). So I have 6 alters 3 of which are females 2 of those are littles. There is Elisabeth (Lizy) age 4, Sarah age 8 and Amara age 25. I was wondering how everyone else treats there alters of the opposite sex. I let Amara do her thing and put on make up and wear "cute" woman's clothing, she wants me to get her prosthetic privates (i.e. breast and vagina) so that she can feel like a "real woman". Each of my female alters have there own clothing, Lizy has her diapers (shes not potty trained yet), Sarah has a cute little girls dress, and Amara has hes clothing as well. Lizy isn't aware that she is in a mans body so I don't let her see we have a penis because I'm afraid she won't be able to handle it, I also only let the female alters out once Amara has transformed into a woman.

I'd really like to hear how other handel there alters like this, and how there significant other deal with it.

This was quite a big thing I came out as non binary gender a short while ago

But before that usually I'd buy the guys the clothing they like so they can put them. I'm waiting on a binder to come but I usually just let them go. The littlest have never been to fussed with there clothing they just like to play.
But the dysphoria can be frustrating for the guys looking at at feminine figure. gets them angry sometimes but I usually just let them dress how they want it helps on bad days.

My partner is a cross dresser so he doesn't care.

We all have the right to a voice when it's about how we look.
I'm a kind of gender chameleon as I see myself genderless, so don't care if I look like a male or a female. Even if the body is female, ten years doing swiming allow us to look like a male if the hair are short and if we want to. So even if I'm the one out, I let the others choose what they want to wear.
We've got almost everything is our closet, but we avoid clothes that are too much feminin, it makes the boys feel weird and there's only Alix who enjoy them

We are all agree about trying to stay as neutral as possible, but I'm not sure it works... when someone really want something who's not gonna change the body permanently or make the others feel too much unconfortable, we let him do it.
For exemple, we let our hair grow because Alix really want to braid them. And even if the boys (Daem and Alexis) were agree, they can't help to complain about "looking like a surfer" (not in a nasty way, just a joke between us)
We also wear that white-and-blue sweater sometimes because Alexis loves it, even if Alix found it too much "teen-ish".
Usualy, I work with Daem and Alexis to choose the daily clothes, and Alix is the one who can freely choose clothes for a special event (guests at home, parties, etc.). The others don't care about how we look.

Female host, It runs the gambit my males enjoy cars, screw drivers, putting furniture together, lifting heavy objects, video games anything male driven. I sometimes allow them to tell us what to do I like being tough in the face of danger anything from placing a mouse trap to actually getting broom to get one out the house. Being quiet safe allowing the women to argue. I also have women that are tomboy-ish and we cross to what would be male dominated things.