Alters in love with people *may trigger*

I have DID and I have at least 5 alters I'm aware of. 4 are female and 1 is male. But as for me I'm ok with my Gender. I'm male, 22, I like girls but I do have 2 alters of mine who are in love with 2 guys. They know I have DID and accept the fact I'm a guy. But I feel like the people around me would obviously see it as Homosexuality. At least the people who don't know what DID is. The fact is, I don't like that my alters like and love these 2 guys. I don't love them at all, I see them as great friends but that's about it. I personally want to date a girl like any other guy my age.

One of my alters looks like my first love by the way. 100% identical, and has her voice and everything. I've seen her in my dreams. All of my alters look like someone I have seen before in my life. people that have been important to me. What can I do about my 2 alters and the fact that they love these 2 guys. The 2 alters I'm referring to are named Natalia and Rebecca. Natalia is 19 and Rebecca is 15. And Natalia is the one who looks like my first love. And she is pretty much attached to one of these guys I mentioned.

Hi

My suggestion is that you try to communicate more with your alters and find a solution for this. Personally, I have crushes on girls but my two alters don't mind. We really feel like separate people, so even if I have feelings, they don't. If I get engaged with someone, they won't, etc.

I think communication is crucial in these cases.

Hope this helps

Joseph