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Need Advice Please

Postby B4TM4N » Wed Nov 19, 2014 9:54 pm

HI, I am new here first off, and I would like some advice, I have friend who I believe to have DID and I have apparently made an alter mad with me. As far as I know he is the protector and I have made him mad. When I first met him he didn't like me but I befriended him. But a couple days ago I met more alters and it deeply confused me so I did a lot of searching on the internet where I found DID. I told her about it and it hurt her and I instantly apologized many times and have been forgiven by all of them except Damian (the protector). Damian and I got a long pretty well after our first interaction and now I am afraid that I have screwed things up. Now he wants to talk to me tonight and I believe he is going to tear me a new one. I just want to be friends with him again and have everything be okay. I am afraid that he is not going to listen to me and just end up hating me making it difficult to be friends with her. I do know that he feels as though I betrayed him by bringing up DID and feels as though I don't think he is a person, which Is false. Any advice would help. Thanks.
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Re: Need Advice Please

Postby Una+ » Wed Nov 19, 2014 10:37 pm

You told the host you think she has DID and now her protector guy part wants to talk to you? That is awesome! I would say you did great.

One question, though: Is this an online-only relationship?
Dx DID older woman married w kids. 0 Una, host + 3, 1, 5. 1 animal. 2 older man. 3 teen girl. 4 girl behind amnesia wall. 5 girl in love. Our thread.
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Re: Need Advice Please

Postby B4TM4N » Wed Nov 19, 2014 10:44 pm

Una+ wrote:You told the host you think she has DID and now her protector guy part wants to talk to you? That is awesome! I would say you did great.

One question, though: Is this an online-only relationship?

No I know her in person and we are pretty close, and I have talk to the protector guy before it's just now he's mad at me
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