Dealing with host's friends

Hey there, I just had a question... how do all of you deal with each others' friends? Like, Hiki is going to meet up with a friend of her whom she hasn't seen for a long time tomorrow, and will stay over for two days.. But while she knowws a bit about Marvy she's never met me cause when they saw each other last time i wasn't there yet. Hiki's other friends also don't really show any desire to meet marvy or me and the only one who did and whom I really liked has been unreachable for months to everyone who knows her... I feel pretty lonely. the only people I speak to are here, our SO, Hiki's ex-gf, and one other online friend of hiki but I'm not particularly close and 'just an alter' to them I think.. Well, not to my SO ofc, but to the rest.. I don't know how to make other friends. I'm not out much and don't really function that well in society and don't like strange people.. And sadly to make friends you first need to speak to strangers in order to get to know them.

so yeah.. not sure what I all want to ask... how to make friends? how to deal with friends of host who don't want to meet you? Should I introduce myself to her friend like marvy did or spare myself from possible rejection? How to be less lonely? I spoke about it with Hiki and Marvolo but they're not sure what to do either even though they want to help me.. I don't want to be rejected anymore by people :\

Sorry for the rant...

To make friends, as you said, you will need to talk to strangers. While that can be scary or embarrassing at times, you can't really expect to have friends show up from nowhere, I guess...

If you want to introduce yourself to them, you should do that. You won't really know whether they'd want to meet you or not until you try, since they might not be aware of you and Marvolo.
Life is constant risk taking, in a certain way. If you don't take any risks, you won't gain anything either. I'm not saying you should do something to endanger your health or anything though. But as I said before, you won't know until you try. Deciding things beforehand will only make them harder- keep an open mind about it.

One thing is though, by posting here, you're technically talking to "strangers" (unless you know everyone here, but they have to have been strangers at some point), so you're not completely alone if I reply. ^^
I'd be happy to be your friend anyways. I'm sure you'll have more sooner or later though, don't worry.

hey there, thanks really much for your reply Sorry for not replying back sooner, we were gone to that friend sooo.

I followed the advice and introduced myself by the way ^^ It went really well. I have a new friend now, I think.. though well, she's still mainly hiki's friend and I'd liike some friends of myself, you know, but it's a start and she's really nice and I enjoyed myself very much.

And I'd love for you to be my friend ^^

GeMerope wrote:hey there, thanks really much for your reply Sorry for not replying back sooner, we were gone to that friend sooo.

I followed the advice and introduced myself by the way ^^ It went really well. I have a new friend now, I think.. though well, she's still mainly hiki's friend and I'd liike some friends of myself, you know, but it's a start and she's really nice and I enjoyed myself very much.

And I'd love for you to be my friend ^^

That's good. ^^ Hopefully others will be like that too, and if not then keep trying, there are definitely others out there who will accept you. ^^
I kind of... have a hard time coming up with something else to say... Sorry about that! >.<

That's okay ^^ I'm never really good with knowing what to say either though But thanks for your words, they cheered me up a lot

*Trigger Warning*
As a protector, I cussed all of the original friends out, they turned their backs on the original, or I simply deleted Facebook and never talk to any of them.

My motto: ###$ everyone, save her.

PurfectlyFlawed wrote:*Trigger Warning*
As a protector, I cussed all of the original friends out, they turned their backs on the original, or I simply deleted Facebook and never talk to any of them.

My motto: ###$ everyone, save her.

That sounds like something Marvy would do, haha. But he's not really inclined to protect me from anyone, just Hiki. Not that I would want to be dependant on him... I would chase friends away though, if they would be bad..