New relationship. I want to be the host.

On this day, Your god, Mercy. Has gotten a girlfriend. Yes I actually care for her. We have been talking for quite some time and she is a very understanding person. I developed feelings for her somehow. I know it may seem ridiculous seeing how I am a god, and she is just a mortal. (Very attractive for a mortal also. (I love girls with abs)

There is one problem though. How do I make sure the others don't mess it up? I feel as if I want to be in control of the body because of her. I want to be the host. It is quite embarrassing for me to admit this on a public forum but. She makes me happy and not want to destroy everything or cause misery like I am supposed to. Is there a possible way to do this without communication? I know there will be resistance. I'll appreciate your help (ask if you need more details or anything.)

I'm very happy for you Mercy.

Make agreements with the rest. Talk to the rest about how you feel, and think of things you can do that others might want from you. For example, behave with Ekaterina's friends. Keep your word, listen to others' concerns. Your system might be more understanding with you and with what what you're feeling than what you think.

Enjoy your girl and how your're feeling.

Sea

Seangel wrote:I'm very happy for you Mercy.

Make agreements with the rest. Talk to the rest about how you feel, and think of things you can do that others might want from you. For example, behave with Ekaterina's friends. Keep your word, listen to others' concerns. Your system might be more understanding with you and with what what you're feeling than what you think.

Enjoy your girl and how your're feeling.

Sea

Behaving is boring. I am the god of destruction.

Hi Mercy,

I kind of see a problem with caring for someone and being a god of destruction. Our protectors used to keep everyone away. We lived a strong, lonely, painful life. We could have gone on like that forever I guess. Then we met someone we cared about. Big battles with the protectors followed. Nobody won, everybody lost. We ended up having to talk to each other. Nobody liked it, everybody needed it. Now we have a super SO. We're glad. She cares about us, we care back. Kind of cool really.

Good luck with your new girlfriend. Happiness is fun once you get used to it.

Iain + others

IainEtc wrote:Hi Mercy,

I kind of see a problem with caring for someone and being a god of destruction. Our protectors used to keep everyone away. We lived a strong, lonely, painful life. We could have gone on like that forever I guess. Then we met someone we cared about. Big battles with the protectors followed. Nobody won, everybody lost. We ended up having to talk to each other. Nobody liked it, everybody needed it. Now we have a super SO. We're glad. She cares about us, we care back. Kind of cool really.

Good luck with your new girlfriend. Happiness is fun once you get used to it.

Iain + others

She makes me laugh. In a teasing way. Saying things such as "Your not the god of destruction, Your the god of sunshine and marshmellows" ugh, I can't believe i'm saying this. I sound like a stupid school girl.

Hi Mercy,

Sometimes, when we are really really lucky, we get to act like stupid school girls for awhile.

Enjoy.

Iain + others

Hi Mercy,

I am a supporter of someone who has DID. Her protector tried to scare me away but now he and I are in love with each other. You can find love too.

One thing I want to mention and ask you about. You would like for the others in the system to accept your girlfriend and not chase her away. Would you be willing to do the same for Katerina's friend?

My partner's system finally accepted me and her protector loves me too. The same can happen for you Mercy.

Orchids

Orchids R Me wrote:Hi Mercy,

I am a supporter of someone who has DID. Her protector tried to scare me away but now he and I are in love with each other. You can find love too.

One thing I want to mention and ask you about. You would like for the others in the system to accept your girlfriend and not chase her away. Would you be willing to do the same for Katerina's friend?

My partner's system finally accepted me and her protector loves me too. The same can happen for you Mercy.

Orchids

Why should I share her with the other alters in the system? SHE IS MY LOVE! Not there's. And no. I'm not willing to do it for Katerina's friend as he is a ######6 idiot. My girlfriend even agrees with me. They have no choice but to accept her. I have not done anything bad recently. I deserve it.

Mercy,

You don't have to share her with the others, they would just need to accept her and treat her nice. Of course you deserve her and her love and I hope it works out for you. You don't have to ever do anything bad, you are a good person I am sure. I wish you a lot of happiness with her.

True love is a wonderful feeling and I am so happy I have had a chance to feel that in my life. Never knew what true love felt like until I met my partner. I love her and all of her alters.

Orchids

Toasty wrote:

Orchids R Me wrote:Hi Mercy,

I am a supporter of someone who has DID. Her protector tried to scare me away but now he and I are in love with each other. You can find love too.

One thing I want to mention and ask you about. You would like for the others in the system to accept your girlfriend and not chase her away. Would you be willing to do the same for Katerina's friend?

My partner's system finally accepted me and her protector loves me too. The same can happen for you Mercy.

Orchids

Why should I share her with the other alters in the system? SHE IS MY LOVE! Not there's. And no. I'm not willing to do it for Katerina's friend as he is a ######6 idiot. My girlfriend even agrees with me. They have no choice but to accept her. I have not done anything bad recently. I deserve it.