Do anything to keep yourself safe and take a chance. It cannot be bad if it makes you feel safer and better.
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The foster care system
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Re: The foster care system
by TooCloseToTheEdge » Fri Apr 05, 2013 6:01 pm
We wanted to let you know that we are here to support you.
Do anything to keep yourself safe and take a chance. It cannot be bad if it makes you feel safer and better.
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Do anything to keep yourself safe and take a chance. It cannot be bad if it makes you feel safer and better.
~ Mixture ?
"The identity of one changes with how one percieves reality"- Vithu Jeyaloganathan.
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Re: The foster care system
by lifelongthing » Fri Apr 05, 2013 6:14 pm
I wrote about you in my newest thread. Just want to say you are in our thoughts.
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Re: The foster care system
by FaithinWrongthings » Fri Apr 05, 2013 7:56 pm
Have 30 minutes to make a decision.
I want to so bad but I don't know how.
I don't think I can
I want to so bad but I don't know how.
I don't think I can
If you know me from the D.I.D forum a couple years ago, feel free to PM me, just know i go by a different name now.(I'm gender fluid)
I am Kayden, a 17 yo diagnosed PTSD TS & Bipolar. Undiagnosed DID used to be DXed with mood disorder with psychosis but somewhere along the lines they forgot about the psychosis?
I am Kayden, a 17 yo diagnosed PTSD TS & Bipolar. Undiagnosed DID used to be DXed with mood disorder with psychosis but somewhere along the lines they forgot about the psychosis?
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Re: The foster care system
by lifelongthing » Fri Apr 05, 2013 8:02 pm
From our other thread;
Do what is best for your healing. You are a beautiful person who deserves a safe & beautiful life.
We are here.
(And especially you Jackilyn (spelling?) who is considering foster care. I so wanted to answer your thread when I read it and I just want to say that I hope you do what you need to lead a healthy and happy life. You deserve such good things, you really do. I wish I would've left my home at your age and I regret not doing it until much later. If that is the road for you, walk it with courage and know you have support here. You (all) are in our thought. I hope you make whatever decision is best for yourselves.)
Do what is best for your healing. You are a beautiful person who deserves a safe & beautiful life.
We are here.
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Re: The foster care system
by TooCloseToTheEdge » Fri Apr 05, 2013 8:25 pm
Think why it would be a good / bad idea to do it. If you really want something, you will always find a way to do it. Always keep in mind that you have to do what is best for yourself and what seems right to you.
Thinking of you
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Thinking of you
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Re: The foster care system
by tomboy24 » Fri Apr 05, 2013 9:54 pm
It comes down to this-
Put you and your health and safety FIRST and ONLY care and worry about that.
Getting out is a chance for you to be safer, to have a better environment, to be healthier, all of that stuff. It is a chance to better your life and to help yourself. It is a chance that you should take. It's not an easy decision, but then, often what we need most in life isn't an easy path to take.
The environment you're in right now is abusive. It is unsafe. It is unhealthy. Don't let yourself downplay it. And if you can, get out of it.
Best of luck to you. Hang in there, stay strong, and know that you are supported here.
~Mixture
Put you and your health and safety FIRST and ONLY care and worry about that.
Getting out is a chance for you to be safer, to have a better environment, to be healthier, all of that stuff. It is a chance to better your life and to help yourself. It is a chance that you should take. It's not an easy decision, but then, often what we need most in life isn't an easy path to take.
The environment you're in right now is abusive. It is unsafe. It is unhealthy. Don't let yourself downplay it. And if you can, get out of it.
Best of luck to you. Hang in there, stay strong, and know that you are supported here.
~Mixture
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Re: The foster care system
by oaktree » Mon Apr 08, 2013 12:59 pm
I don't know anything about the foster care system. I don't even live in the US.
But I can say this.
You say you wouldn't be able to go back.
When they don't want you to be healthy you shouldn't go back at all.
When they don't want you to seek help,
when they can't see they're the cause of this,
it shouldn't be good to go back at all.
In short, maybe the fact you wouldn't be able to go back is a reason to go away. Not a reason to stay.
But I can say this.
You say you wouldn't be able to go back.
When they don't want you to be healthy you shouldn't go back at all.
When they don't want you to seek help,
when they can't see they're the cause of this,
it shouldn't be good to go back at all.
In short, maybe the fact you wouldn't be able to go back is a reason to go away. Not a reason to stay.
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