Why *trigger warning*

He is gone my husband gone.
I thought us alter never got sick and died.......
.....
He's tom is gone were do the dead ones go some float in a ghostly form others intergrate into the pillars.
WHY IS HE GONE??
He shouldn't give me back my tom let him come back.
He wasn't evil?
Give him back to me -Leila



It's the Vampire I bet you........ -??

is your hubby an alter?

alters can come back, heal, change, transform, go into hiding, go through a shut down

if that s what s happenin, it will be all right in time

for now it s frightenin and you may feel lonely

feel free to come on here and talk to us
much love

Nina11

Yes me and him are both alter.......
Somehow he grew sick and died I had to bury him.
I don't know alters usually leave a trace or a being around when they are destined to come back.
But he didn't He is my thomas and he is gone...
I can't comprehend him being gone he is my one and only.
I can't live with out him and he is gone.
my love for him.
he can't be gone he has to come back doesn't he. He can't leave I love him

No alter can ever truly "die" or "disappear".

But they do "die" or "disappear" for a reason usually.

Sounds like some changes or developments that are most likely needed are going on.

Your husband will most likely either be "reborn" as himself, or be integrated with someone, or is "sleeping" and will awake when the time is right, or something like that.

We are sorry to hear about this and are sorry for your loss, but we know that with systems, everything seems to happen for a reason, even if that reason isn't known or recognize yet, and even if things don't seem to make sense right away, there always seems to be some reason for why things happen in a DID system.


~Mixture

hey sweetie

I ve read a lot of dyin alters.

Mostly they leave a message. I lost my host, and she gave me no message but goodbye.
She was gone. She shoul ve transformed but didn t

Others took over but everyoen kept disappearin.

Right now host is back and everyone else is gone. Hosgt can t stay tho, she s in spirit form which a body can t bear.

So is your beloved husband a ghost? I don t know. Is he part of the system? YES. Can you contact him? YES
You can call upon him.
You can try the nine steps

He IS there. He still loves you.

THat does mean you re lonely right now.

I m givin you a heart felt hug and hope you can hear fromhim soon

Love
Nina11