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Protectors being Protectors help! trigger warning

Postby spanky_spee » Mon Feb 18, 2013 1:18 am

Okay so friday night...are friend got attacked by there brother.. Barry well went straight off screamed get off him tried to pull his man off are friend it was really scary because this man is quite bulky and barry doesn't have his natural build we actually got slammed in the face by him. Channlle finds nothing wrong with what barry did..but barrys temper rage shocked us all are cousin said he sounded like a wolf about to tear someones head off....I'm not sure how to think about this because are anger issues got real..Barry was being a protector i know.. but if are cousin didn't hold us back... The bigger person got hit with a glass cup from are friend defending himself..the blood it triggered hades we were in a violent rage if are cousin wasnt there what would have we done..I'm scared of are own temper in runs in are blood i'm at a loss I think we should go into the hospital.
I'm afraid of barry losing his temper like that and hades slicing people open I could here his thoughts I'm going to slice him open and show him his intestines.

I honestly think it's fine -Barry
murderous thoughts are killing me I can here them whispering dark things I don't want to wake with a dead horse on my bed
simple reaction to being in a violent situation. -Barry
obviously something is wrong if the won't shut up but when I try to talk with them they disapear
we were progressing with communication, I could here whispers from claureshia we just took 10 steps back from everything we are working for
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Re: Protectors being Protectors help! trigger warning

Postby ThatPerson » Tue Feb 19, 2013 1:34 am

Do you guys have internal Police? It could be beneficial as long as you have a board of directors or a monarch or something similar. Have every one vote on rules of outside behavior and have a jail of some sort set up for rule breakers. We have a time out center. Even if you have rules, there has to be some way of enforcing them or they mean nothing...
We also have a board of directors. Me in charge of helping deal with emotion. Ace with reason. And the host. Always in charge of social things and ultimately has the last say unless they're outvoted by Ace and I both for good reason. Even then we have the rest of the families input. A triangle, if you will. All the sides are important, because even if just one side of the triangle is removed your left with a simple angle... It takes a while to set up, but the results are usually pretty good. I hope this helps at least a little, cus it was a bit embarrassing to type out all alone...

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Re: Protectors being Protectors help! trigger warning

Postby spanky_spee » Tue Feb 19, 2013 2:21 am

ThatPerson wrote:Do you guys have internal Police? It could be beneficial as long as you have a board of directors or a monarch or something similar. Have every one vote on rules of outside behavior and have a jail of some sort set up for rule breakers. We have a time out center. Even if you have rules, there has to be some way of enforcing them or they mean nothing...


Very good point there. we have a healing system. but not many people get punished for there actions. I will definately be setting up something like this. Maybe punished people could be moved into luchreshas cells.Thank you that's a really good Idea.
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Re: Protectors being Protectors help! trigger warning

Postby ThatPerson » Tue Feb 19, 2013 2:41 am

*Smiles a bit* Glad I could help... I'd be glad to give you more advice if I can any time you have a question or problem I can help with...
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