New to this, self-diagnosed & overwhelmed (REALLY long!)

I DO work from home, on the computer. I barely ever leave the house. And I barely ever work, because I can barely ever remember how.

And you know what? I think it was Lyr who was doing the work for us, and after she got that hard proof there and stopped denying...I HAVE NOT HEARD FROM HER SINCE!

I think she's kind of pissed off at always having to work whenever she's out, and now she knows there's more of us to do things she's quite angry at us. :/


...disability benefits....they were far far far far more stressful. We spent three years living in poverty unable to work and unable to get benefits (because you have to fight and fight and fight for them and none of us are really fighters [except Lyr and she ###$ off because she /always/ has to fight and manage the hard stuff for us and she's sick of it!]).

This was the LESS stressful option. And it is FAR less stressful not living in poverty and always worrying about how to get food and pay bills and sinking deeper and deeper into debt.

I think I will try and get SO to take over. Lyr's been trying to teach him how when she had the time. I hope he remembers how. I'm not sure when she'll be back to teach him again. :/