S*x trigger warning

I know this is a very private triggering subject so just a warning
but I'm not going to get heavy into things just need some advice

Okay through all technicalitys the system would be Bi-sexual
But nell are main host is a lesbian...
are relationship through all technicalitys is straight.
boy + girl blah blah...
but I don't know how to help ease her into this without her floating off the planet.
It was one of the reasons she left in the first place.
she sometimes even feels naueous around men with even a hint of s*xual intent.
she can't stand looking at it seeing it. I don't want her to feel uncomfortable because we are pretty co-con. -Barry

Yikes differing sexualities is a tough issue.

I admit I'm not sure how some of my SO's alters got to be so fond of me in this regard. I'll ask her when she gets home from work if she has any advice.

So although Nell is the host, the rest of you would prefer a heterosexual relationship? Is there a certain someone in mind when the issue of intimacy comes up or are you just testing the waters for a future relationship? Is there a safe place inside she can go during intimacy (someplace deep inside)?

Have you all talked about what kind of relationship you want? Nell's feelings are important but so are yours and everyone else in your system (those with interest in intimacy that is).

I'm sorry for all the questions! I just want to help.

spartanfur06 wrote:Yikes differing sexualities is a tough issue.

No thanks for the reply

the questions are good to.

The relatioship is with another DID system so things get pretty complicated to say the least.
We are trieng to figure things out. We want to make this thing a serious relationship.

Alot of of us have different sexualitys
Bi, homo-sexual, straight, lesbian, pan

most of us are okay with the relationship

she has told us one of the reason she came back was to kind get to see that light.
but she is blocked everytime so she wanted to attempt intergration with are other host channelle because she is bi and has experienced that.
but integration is happening slowly but that aspect isn't forming into nell you could say.

so another strategy is needed. Barry