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Postby forgotenhottie » Sat Sep 17, 2005 12:46 am

Hey gus..ummm I wanna die and I really dont no why...I cant take it I have a ###$ SUCKY life and its killing me...My friends all backstab me guys lead me on...I wanna die..and so on and so forth theres alot of $#%^ going on in my life and I cant take it....HELP ME
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Postby lonley fading » Sat Sep 17, 2005 1:02 am

sounds like you should get away from those so-called friends. I spent alot of time with people I thought were my friends but I know now really were just a big mistake and a waste of my time.
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Re: I wanna die

Postby runner » Sun Sep 18, 2005 11:28 pm

No, you don't want to die, please dont think on that way. You should know taht god give us this life. We must help each other, and we must help us! You must find good things in your life. When i have some problems, and when i feel unlucky and nervous, when i feel anger and pain, i go to run. That is my valve. You must find your valve, i tell your self : I will make it, i will do my best, i am efficient. No one asked us are we want to born or not - because we cant think, and we havent claim to take our lives when we want. Everytime, when you feel bad, just think i am healthy and look other sick people, some of they lives like they are not sick, they enjoy in life. That is very hard but you must look that from your side!
Even if there are no limits, that is not reason why we shouldn’t go to them.
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Postby Chucky » Mon Sep 19, 2005 9:47 am

forgotenhottie, many people in this world want to die... ...but they don't and they live on through whatever is bothering them.


To solve the problems in your life I think it is best to start by listing out the problems and then thinking about how to do things differently to make things better. The worst thing that you could do would be to continue doing the same things over and over. That would exacerbate them. When a dog gets tipped on the nose for pooing in the house do you see it pooing there again? No, it knows what's good and what's bad and instinct tells it not to poo there again. Unfortunately, humans have large brains and have to ability to go against our instincts. You must realise that you need to change certain things in your life right now in order to make it more fruitful. It's just like switching a light on...or off.


You are going to meet many an asshole in your life my friend. They are everywhere. The best thing to do is ignore them.


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hi,

Postby jl73 » Tue Sep 27, 2005 12:25 am

Thanks for telling us that. It took some courage just to admit it.

How long have you felt this way?
My personal belief is that all severely depressed people want to die, or feel like that at least some of the time.

I've felt that way, and tried just about everything to get myself out of it. Right now I'm doing experimental treatments at a hospital that will hopefully make me feel better. They've identified the spot that malfunctions in depressed people, and work on that area.
If these machines work, it could be a really good way to help a lot of people without the side effects of drugs.

The other thing is how functional are you? If you don't have the energy to go to therapy it isn't going to help much. Do you have any friends that would understand or you trust to talk with?

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Postby Immortalsiren » Tue Sep 27, 2005 5:55 pm

If you cannot go to therapy I would recommend hospitalizing yourself until you are stable. Then go to therapy.
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Postby Guest » Fri Sep 30, 2005 9:10 pm

one more thing,

don't feel guilty about wanting to die. everyone feels that way at one time or another. If you're losing really bad at a card game, most people will stop playing, but your life is important because you've made it this far, so there's probably something inside that just isn't quite ready to let go yet..

You're probably like most here, severe depression, other stuff....
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Hey

Postby raycid » Sat Oct 08, 2005 12:09 am

Hey what's up I'm a guy, I'm 31 probably your just a teenager.

Hey don't kill yourself and I won't either deal?

Psych, I'm outta, nah I'm just kidding.

LOL! :shock:
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Postby remorseful » Sat Oct 08, 2005 6:38 am

I'm going through a lot of crap here lately. I feel like I want to die. The only reason I haven't done anything about it yet is because of my baby girl. She is all that is keeping me going right now and I am her sole provider. Lately I've been thinking that she would be better off without me. Anyone else could do a better job with her than me.
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Postby Chucky » Sat Oct 08, 2005 8:17 am

remorseful wrote:The only reason I haven't done anything about it yet is because of my baby girl.


That's really sweet. For many people who want to die they will usually mention one or more things that are keeping them alive. For you it's your daughter. For me, it's my mother, my ex-girlfriend, and all the people who come to me for help in my life. I feel like giving up every day but I know that I won't.


It's a huge weight on our minds to want to feel so bad that we want to die, but cling onto something and maybe things will get better if you don't give up just yet...
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