I met this girl 7 weeks ago. Ive broken up with her as of a few days ago. It took 7 hours, a cheap hotel room, a transit day pass and a lot of perserverence to.get her out of my house.
She met me and told me she had an apartment and owned two houses, had two jobs. She stayed the night. That was oct 14. I just got her out of my house dec 5.
She told me that she couldnt get pregnant because of some injuries and she was 42. Then she turned out to be pregnant. This was a few weeks in. I was floored because it was supposed to be impossible and i asked her to go home so i could think and clear my head.
Thats when the story started to go sideways. She said she couldnt go home because her son was staying at her house and he was in the US and she had signed it over to him. Her son also had been using her car. By this point she was also out of money citing that her son had her bank card. I was like, if your son is staying in your apartment with your bank card and your car and now your pregnant who cares if you signed your apartment over to him of course he will let you go home and sleeo in your own bed.
I was a bit behind on my rent and was also asking her to get ahold of her bank card because i was covering her and running low on money. I had been laid off at the end of september and had job offers which i took one on october 20 but there was no more money coming. I have room renters who pay me so short term id be ok but i needed to get on paying my landlord. She said out of nowhere that she would cover my back rent and while i said she didnt need to do that she insisted and kept this ruse up for weeks.
Then she said her ex was in jail and he and her owned half each of the business so she was going to get a line of credit for $25k and it was just a matter of paperwork getting done at the bank. It was going to take a few days and she would pay all my rent owing for me. During this time i was still covering her basic expenses which if a person is about to give you $3-$5000 is pretty easy to do. Reluctantly i told my landlord that i would have a "significant chunk" for him relatively soon. That was november 5th.
Throughout november the dragging on the line of.credit was continuing, a few more days, will hear on thursday, should know by next week. I was becoming increasingly stressed. Whenever i asked her about the money she would get upset citing that she was pregnant and going to have an abortion and howcome i was just focused on the money. I was like well a place to live is pretty important. Plus my base salary is pretty low and paying for two i was running broke. I literally had to go to work without cigarettes a few days and seeing as im in sales thats no way to quit smoking.
During all this time she was staying at my house and not working, citing first some outpatient surgery she had and then the medical abortion. She was being a great suzy homemaker at my house cleaning cooking making me lunches but i was like hey we never talked about moving in together.
As the days went by my landlord started getting agitated with me and me getting agitated with her. I would press her that we needed to.get on this money and she kept giving me answers that it was a few more.days she was just waiting for her bank and accusing me of only caring about money. It wasnt that i only cared about money it was that i was now painted into a corner with my landlord. Before she came along i was paying him a month and a half each month and that was only stopped by my job loss. Problem was that with her around i was paying for two and couldnt afford to pay bills or rent and i was still running broke. Now my landlord was expecting a big chunk of money and it had been a long time since he had gotten anything and i needed her to get on this.
At one point i noticed she took my bank card and got some cigarettes and took out $40 while i slept because i was running low on money and reviewed my account. I told her i was practically broke so if she could get her bank card from her son because there was no more money. She never did get her bank card.
Later under extreme stress i just had to get away so i was going to go to my sailboat for the weekend. In part i was going to try to smoke her out of my house to by going and taking my money with me. I figured if i wasnt around shed get on top of getting her bank card and her own money or end up.going home at least. She asked if she could borrow my bank card to get some smokes i said ok and left with one of my renters. I texted my renter and asked him to tell me if she pulled money out of my account because she had done so before without asking. The only money i had was $400 given to me by my renter. I got no answer from him so i checked my account - she had pulled $160. I confronted her and got the money back and didnt end up going to my boat and left that night to hang out with a friend because i was very angry.
Eventually she nailed down that she would get the money from this line of credit on thursday (last thursday). By this point i was feeling trapped. If i told her to GTFO i would be out all this money, i really needed it but i had little confidence it was ever going to come. Thursday rolled around and she said it went through and shed have my draft friday morning.
I took friday off work without telling her so i could see this money for myself and if not get her out. She wanted to.borrow my bank card to get medication in the morning and i had already changed my pin so i said i go with her. She refused to let me go with her and waid whatever she would get it later when she had her own money. She was going to get he money at 11am. Then the bank called and the appointment was moved to 330. I sat around killing time and then 3 rolled around and she said the appointment was moved to 7.
I was like this makes no sense. Your broke you have $25 k of someone elses money coming to you and you are going to.wait now until 7 to get the money? She then told me it wasnt the line of.credit only a small increase in her overdraft.
At that point i started kicking her out.
After she left i saw that she left the feminine pads i had bought her because she was going through a medical abortion and that causes a lot of bleeding. I talked to a pharmacist friend about her version of events and the abortion itself also now seems to be a lie. At this point im not even sure if she showed up here pregnant.
Im now $6000 in the hole with my landlord and this woman i later realized stole my dead mothers diamond rings. I tried texting her to just give them back because they arent worth much mostly sentimental value and she of course denies.
Beware these people. I have cats and renters and i have lived in this 4 bedroom house for 13 years and i have a lot of stuff. This woman may have destroyed my whole life. I will try to negotiate with my landlord but even if he goes for it i may be stuck living on a hundred bucks a week for a long time and may have to get a second job.
This is horrible im ruined.
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