CHA CHA CHANGES

Hey all

I have a question. Couple of questions really.....

What sortof changes do you fear most?

What sortof changes do you fear least??


Is it hard to accept changes ?


Why is it hard?

Changes I fear the most... I'd say relationship changes. If someone was to move far away, or die, I tend to have a difficult time coping, or I will just not cope at all.

Changes I fear the least... I am looking forward to moving on in life and being an 'adult' because anything is better than this hell-hole of a home.

I don't give myself time to think of whether something is easy or hard. I just make myself get it over with to survive.

changes I fear most: losing people in my life

changes I fear least: letting new people into my life

I think I see a pattern here I have a really hard time with the negative changes because I become so quickly and easily attached to things and people and become very comfortable in whatever routine I build around people and such and have a really hard time adjusting to having less of something in my life.

I don't really fear changes, it's just when they happen I normally freak out, especially anything to do with relationships, it can be other people's even, like I have taken an abnormally long time to adjust to two of my sisters splitting up with their exes, I guess I was quite close to them, but still... It takes me a long time to get used to things, so when they then change, i can't seem to deal with it very well.
hm, now this has got me thinking, maybe I do fear change...I'm not sure
I just know I don't like change. Although conversely, I can be very fickle and change my mind on things A LOT, so.... Also I can get bored with things and want them to change.
argh, this post is confusing me!!