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JohnnyBlaze wrote:Ali, I've been taking a little sabbatical. After I defended the non's about a month ago, a member here accused me of not seeing you people as people, simply because I don't go into the chat room.

According to this person, I don't understand what anyone else here goes through because of my absence from the chat rooms (I'm not big on chat rooms, whatever the site - too shy), even though I go through the same things that everyone else here does. So, rather than argue the point (as we all know what they say about arguing on the Internet), I decided to step away from this site for a while.

I'm still not certain if I'm back to stay or not, but I figured I should give it a second try. I miss some of ya's (like you, Ali)!

Wow, great job at skewering a perfectly reasonable pm. You started a thread asking what the deal is with our attitude to nons and I pmed because I didn't want to air other people's problems on the forum. I never mentioned anything about you going to the chat room. How the hell did you manage to get all that from my pm? Somehow my pm suddenly becomes all about you, amazing

Moomin - you just aired it out on this thread, and JohnnyBlaze was just making a point to how he received the information.

No need for all of us to get up in a tizzy, let's all just relax and enjoy each other in the forum.

I mean, I love the chat room and all, but with the inability to be there much during work time, and the neighbor yanking their wireless connection out from under me, I cannot go on in the evenings like I used to.

No reason for anyone to feel threatened about not being in the chat room. It's a personal choice, and I think some people find it easier to gather and display their thoughts here on forum, because they can re-read their post prior to submitting it. Also, it gives more time for thought, and less time for off-the-cuff comments, which can be triggering to others.

I know I'm an "off-the-cuff" kinda gal, so I'm good with it, but I respect that others aren't.

Lets all get along... because I LOVE YOU ALL!!!

<3 heart, hugs, and kisses!!!

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Hey Miss Ali

This is my point exactly, my pm wasn't even about the chat room, it was about MY stance on nons and how I got there. How the hell it got to be about the chat room I don't know.
All Im saying is that sometimes some people dont post here even though they're feeling hurt and triggered and it's alright for some to go and try to be some liason officer between nons and bpds, but it for others, the presence of nons here was far from welcome.
The mods handled it admirably and no one felt they had to leave.
Case closed, but I'm damned if Im going to sit back and hear somebody go on telling their warped version of it.