So The Talks Didn't Go Well...

He came over to my place we walked a bit I thought it was going good.

We were sitting a few streets down from where I live in a car.

Than when discussing the needs for the break-up he just lost it. I said I'd like to spend the night together. He just flipped out and said " I can't do that! I can't do that! It's too painful " I said " REALLY? your in pain? "

Than he said if I didn't get out of his car he called the cops. I asked him to call down. Than like as if I were a child he started counting " When I count do 10 if you not out of my car I'll call the police. 10 9 8 7 6 5 3 2 1.." than he said " Your a b(i(t(c(h( and I hate you so much " and shoved me out of the car and drove off.

I called and txted him but he just ignored me.


Than my phone died and I showed up at his house at one in the morning kicking at his window. He woke up and said " what the ###$ are you doing here? "

I said " you owe me apology how dare you treat me like that " he said " I'm sorry I guess you didn't get my txts "

So we talked for a while ( where he was very rude of course ) saying that I'm stalker, a creeper, that I'm insane, than that he's sorry, he loves me, he hopes I understand, I didn't derseve this or that.

( Wouldn't even hug or touch me btw at any point ) I asked if he could just do a favor and let me spend the night.

Again he said " No! " " You don't come by in the middle of the night and get let in "

Ok , in this " house " I have a whole room and a cat. OK I pretty much live there I have properity.

And for him to treat me like I'm some stranger after 3 FREAKING YEARS??? Yea I don't think so!

Than I saw my cat outside and I said '" YOU LET HER OUT AT NIGHT SHE ISN'T A OUTDOOR CAT !"

Than once again he told me to leave. So I just left.

I can't believe after 3 years I'm treated like that.

I sent him a bunch of txt this morning saying what a a hole he is.

Btw that " apology txt" all it said was " I'm sorry, I will never be able to forgive myself for what I said you never deserve that, I'm sorry I'll leave you alone. "

What a tool.

So whatever. I don't know how this will turn out but all my $#%^ is still over there and he never said anything about picking it up. So idk.

Just what a waste of time. 3 years and nothing to show for it.

Crimson, with all due respect and much love for you, sweetheart, I think its time to leave him alone and move on. For good. You're going to end up arrested, and it's only going to serve to make you more angry, and make you feel worse about yourself.

I think it was a bad idea to show up at his house that late though..

AMP

MissAli wrote:Crimson, with all due respect and much love for you, sweetheart, I think its time to leave him alone and move on. For good. You're going to end up arrested, and it's only going to serve to make you more angry, and make you feel worse about yourself.

I think it was a bad idea to show up at his house that late though..

AMP

We talked this morning and he just basically said it's too hard to be friends or talk and this is the only way he knows how to end things and he started crying so I said I'm sorry you feel this way and want to end things like this and hung up.

So I guess that is it.

MissAli wrote:Crimson, with all due respect and much love for you, sweetheart, I think its time to leave him alone and move on. For good. You're going to end up arrested, and it's only going to serve to make you more angry, and make you feel worse about yourself.

I think it was a bad idea to show up at his house that late though..

AMP

Yeah! I agree with all of what Ali wrote. The situation is very intense and if it keeps going that way you will be arrested or at the very least be served a restraining order.

You are entitled to have whatever belongings you have at his house. I would recommend a very matter of fact text/call simply stating when would a good time be to pick up your belongings, and leave it at that. Keep it professional and to the point don't get mixed up with his games or drama. I'd also recommened when you do go to pick your belongings up it may be a good idea to have someone present with you.

Hang in there!!!

cboxpalace wrote:

MissAli wrote:Crimson, with all due respect and much love for you, sweetheart, I think its time to leave him alone and move on. For good. You're going to end up arrested, and it's only going to serve to make you more angry, and make you feel worse about yourself.

I think it was a bad idea to show up at his house that late though..

AMP

Yeah! I agree with all of what Ali wrote. The situation is very intense and if it keeps going that way you will be arrested or at the very least be served a restraining order.

You are entitled to have whatever belongings you have at his house. I would recommend a very matter of fact text/call simply stating when would a good time be to pick up your belongings, and leave it at that. Keep it professional and to the point don't get mixed up with his games or drama. I'd also recommened when you do go to pick your belongings up it may be a good idea to have someone present with you.

Hang in there!!!

Yea read above C^ but thank you for the kind words

Hang in there, honey doll.

But, as for this guy... well, stick a fork in him, because he is COOKED.

Time for a new turkey :0)

Or Walrus. Whatever it is that dancingisforbidden has been putting all over the place.

Smile... because he will never have anyone like you.

AMP

MissAli wrote:Hang in there, honey doll.

But, as for this guy... well, stick a fork in him, because he is COOKED.

Time for a new turkey :0)

Or Walrus. Whatever it is that dancingisforbidden has been putting all over the place.

Smile... because he will never have anyone like you.

AMP

Haha you think Ali?

Sometimes people are crazy. (Like me... I tend to be crazy, according to exes.)
Crazy can be attractive... or scary... sometimes both... (Also from exes...)
Either way, it's not good for you or him.

He cant' deal with it anymore... find a new one...
I used to find a couple new ones and just see who wanted to buy me something sparkley.
Point is, there are lots of other guys in the world.
If he's gonna flip out on you, find one that won't. You don't need that static.

You're a good person. You'll be fine.
We all have crap relationships from time to time. You just have to let them go and do something better with your time.

^_^

SmileXx wrote:Sometimes people are crazy. (Like me... I tend to be crazy, according to exes.)
Crazy can be attractive... or scary... sometimes both... (Also from exes...)
Either way, it's not good for you or him.

He cant' deal with it anymore... find a new one...
I used to find a couple new ones and just see who wanted to buy me something sparkley.
Point is, there are lots of other guys in the world.
If he's gonna flip out on you, find one that won't. You don't need that static.

You're a good person. You'll be fine.
We all have crap relationships from time to time. You just have to let them go and do something better with your time.

^_^

I hope he comes back though.

I mean I do have another my current boyfriend.

Perhaps this will all shift on him. Who knows.

Don't hope he comes back.
I hope he doesn't come back FOR you...
There are better men in the world. Better for you.

Life moves forward, and so should you, hon.

<3