Another *me* post

Do you think my ex might be BPD as well?

On Saturday I was at my ex's wedding. On Friday night she texted me drunk "I love you. I love you. I love you"

Sunday morning she called me and was aggressive.

Monday we meet and make love (without protection).

Tuesday she tells me she stopped taking the pill since Saturday and she wants a baby.

I say ok, but tell her that she has to change her lifestyle. Stop partying and taking drugs. Move to the suburbs. Wednesday she says I killed her baby joy with my logical thinking.

Thursday she calls me and tells me that she needs me for survival. I tell her me too and she goes angry saying I have two very demanding women in my life(meaning my ex).

Friday we go a trip for the long weekend. She keeps picking up fights and insulting me. Sunday night she starts a huge fight out of nothing at her flat and insults me in front of her housemate. 

Monday I ask her to think if she really wants to be with me or not. Wednesday I asked her what are the plans for weekend. She says she doesn't make plans because she needs time and space to think.

Friday I tell her I am going home for the weekend. She immediately changes and says that I shouldn't disappear that we need to talk about us and that I should keep in touch.

Monday I asked her if she is done with the thinking and she says not.

Thursday I send an email saying that I consider that we are no longer together since she needs so much time to think.

Thursday night she has sex with somebody else.

Then after that for two months she is I Want to be with you/I don't want to be with you.

She tried to control me with my stuff too. She would not give them back to me. We would meet just so she will give me my stuff but would come without those and keep asking me if I am over her. If I would say no she would disappear.
Until she starts dating somebody else...

She could be. At the very least she is unstable.

Are you bpd?....If so, do you really want to be with someone so fickle and unstable? The chemistry and excitement may be there.....but won't you be triggered by her constant push/pull?

*hugs* and walrus :3

She could be BPD, but in reality, she sounds more like she's a little psychotic to me.

Or sadistic.

But then again, they say that BPD is only 1-3% of the population, so I find it unlikely that everyone we BPD's come into contact with are also BPD.

Although, come to think of it, my ex was MORE BPD than I even am. It was a tumultuous relationship.

That will be the LAST time I do THAT to myself.

Good luck with this, stavros.

AMP