I want to fix my mistake

Hi all,

I'm very sorry about everything that I've done here.
I do not want anybody leaving because of my posts. I just read it, and I shall no longer post in this section. I didn't knew it fell so hard on some.

I hope you believe that I'm truly sorry.

Thank you though, for all the information that's already been given.

And to you all: please don't leave the board because of me. I won't post anymore here, and I shall stick to the thread for nons.

Hugs, Muranyi.

Muranyi,
I think that you have been respectful in your posts and you have been really grateful for the advice that you have gotten here. I don't think that you made a mistake that you need to fix. Even the fact that you posted this shows a lot of humility and compassion. I think that you are just in pain and you want answers and weren't able to find them elsewhere. There are people that come onto this board that say some pretty triggering things about us, however, for me anyway I don't see that you have done that.

Take care

Muranyi,

I don't see you as a problem.
You seem well accepted here, even liked.
You're respectful and have not caused a real problem.

You are not the problem the board is experiencing right now.

-SmileXx

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Thank you mooshoo and SmileXx, for the kind words.
Mooshoo, I indeed am in pain, and wasn't able to find answers anywhere else. BPD is not a well-known disorder here in my country, so there's not much people I can turn to.
And I am indeed grateful, since it's not easy for someone who suffers from borderline to give answers. That's my experience so far. Every time I ask my bf 'why' questions, he's not able to answer and it's triggering for him.
So yeah, in my opinion, it's not an easy task to do...

I thought though that I was a problem since there were so many posts about non's posting over here. And I really don't want to screw up your board. It's so good to get support, and I wish my bf had such a place to be his true self without any guilt or shame. So I really don't want to mess that up for you guys here.

Hugs, Muranyi.

Muranyi,

You can post here.
Direct questions belong in the Ask A BPDer thread, but otherwise you can post here.
If I, the mod, think your post belongs somewhere else, I'll move it.

Yes, the forum is first and foremost for BPDers to come and support each other, but Nons need help too, and as a mod, I'm trying to figure out the best way we can go about getting everyone the kind of support they need.

In the meantime, we all just have to play nice and let me do MY JOB.

-SmileXx