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Postby atomicuniverse » Thu Nov 03, 2011 9:08 pm

Someone send me a private message when every other post isn't a non asking for advice on their relationships.

Don't we have a thread specifically dedicated to nons asking questions about BPD? Why is that not being enforced?

I'm a little PO'ed right now that my safe place turned into a non support group.
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Re: Leaving Forum

Postby mooshoo » Thu Nov 03, 2011 9:25 pm

Atomic, I know that I just got triggered by a post that I read on our forum that seemed like it would be more appropriate elsewhere. I struggled over whether or not to say anything, but found that I could find nothing constructive to say, so I left it alone. However, I am relieved that you have said something. I think positive interchanges between us are helpful, however, when we are referred to as "they" on our own forum it is troubling. I really hope you stay, you add a lot to this forum.
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Re: Leaving Forum

Postby moomin » Fri Nov 04, 2011 11:35 am

Anyone else who is uncomfortable with Nons posting on this board on the BPD section, please also pm the mods.
I don't want this board to go the way of the HPD and the NPD forums.
This is a safe place for pwBPD to vent/post without being triggered by 'relationship with nons' threads.
It's a shame if pwBPD have to leave because they don't feel safe enough to be here.
I can sympathise with the Nons, but they have other sites and a thread dedicated just for them.
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Re: Leaving Forum

Postby kirayng » Fri Nov 04, 2011 1:42 pm

I apologize for answering nons outside of the thread. Please don't leave, the issue is known now and the moderators can be more proactive in the future. Also, one more person, me, won't post to them outside of their thread. This place is for pwBPD, not for nons. I would greatly miss your contribution to this forum. :cry:
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Re: Leaving Forum

Postby SmileXx » Fri Nov 04, 2011 3:26 pm

This issue is being worked on.

If you have a problem with a thread in the future, it is much easier to address it if you notify a mod about it, though. Myself, in particular.

My inbox is always open, and I am here to listen to your concerns about the forum.

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