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I don't get angry much

Postby slj25 » Fri Oct 14, 2011 3:51 pm

I know a big part of BPD is getting angry and blowing up. Instead of that, I seem to sob uncontrollebly. I overreact to small criticism by crying. I really don't have much to get angry over. I have a great husband now, who for treats me really well. The times that we do argue, I get somewhat sarcastic.

Anyone else like this?
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Re: I don't get angry much

Postby mooshoo » Fri Oct 14, 2011 5:06 pm

I don't rant and rave, however, I am passive aggressive. I usually feel so out of touch with my anger that I don't even realize how angry I really am. I may not say an angry word, however, I think that the anger is spewing out of all of my pores. Anger is a very difficult emotion for me to display, I am terrified of anger and its expression.

I can relate to you and I really appreciate your post.
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Re: I don't get angry much

Postby distortedgirl » Fri Oct 14, 2011 6:21 pm

When I get angry, I become sarcastic. I talk politely, but every word is intended to offend. When I get more angry, I ignore the person completely until my anger is calmed.
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Re: I don't get angry much

Postby moomin » Fri Oct 14, 2011 7:41 pm

Sometimes people cry when they're angry or frustrated or helpless. I cry when I can't control my emotions.
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