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Poll: BPD, Are you an only child?

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How many siblings do you have?

I am an only child.
7
29%
I have one sibling.
3
13%
I have more than one sibling.
14
58%
 
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Poll: BPD, Are you an only child?

Postby KrokYo » Mon Sep 19, 2011 5:42 am

I, myself, am an only child... or, at least, was raised an only child (I have step-siblings & a half-sibling, all of whom were significantly older than me & I never got to know them.

I am curious to learn how many BPDs here are only children & how many of you have siblings.
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Re: Poll: BPD, Are you an only child?

Postby ambivalence » Mon Sep 19, 2011 7:58 am

I am the youngest of three... well, four.
I have a half-sister who is 14 years older than me but I have never met her.
My older brother (13 years my senior) is actually a half-brother but he considers my Dad his father.
& My other sister, who is a full sibling, is 3 years older than me.
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Re: Poll: BPD, Are you an only child?

Postby lilyfairy » Mon Sep 19, 2011 10:01 am

I've come from a stable household of mum dad and three kids- I'm the oldest (and the only one that ended up with the problems).
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Re: Poll: BPD, Are you an only child?

Postby Casper » Mon Sep 19, 2011 2:43 pm

No brothers, no sisters. I had enough friends with brothers and sisters though, that it felt like I had siblings.
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Re: Poll: BPD, Are you an only child?

Postby ems » Tue Sep 20, 2011 1:16 am

Only child, raised with other people's children as "siblings". My mother has switched partners many times, so I have quite a few "siblings" that are not in my life anymore.
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Re: Poll: BPD, Are you an only child?

Postby ireneadler999 » Tue Sep 20, 2011 2:05 am

yes. my parents only had one child to disarrange, so they focussed all their efforts on me. :)
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Re: Poll: BPD, Are you an only child?

Postby Beatrix Kiddo » Tue Sep 20, 2011 7:31 pm

No, I'm a middle child. A massively overlooked one.
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Re: Poll: BPD, Are you an only child?

Postby Dancing is forbidden » Wed Sep 21, 2011 9:48 pm

Only male with 3 sisters. Spoilt in some ways, ignored and neglected in others, especially by my father
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Re: Poll: BPD, Are you an only child?

Postby rentanaardvark » Wed Sep 21, 2011 10:03 pm

KrokYo wrote:I, myself, am an only child... or, at least, was raised an only child (I have step-siblings & a half-sibling, all of whom were significantly older than me & I never got to know them.

I am curious to learn how many BPDs here are only children & how many of you have siblings.


I am like you. Raised an only child. I have one half brother and one half sister. Don't have much if any of a relationship with either. Only saw them once or twice a month growing up.
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