i have fallen down the hole

can't see

As much as I dig your posts nonameatall, it might be copacetic to consolidate your posts under a single thread. You have a lot of posts at the moment and it might be driving newer posts further down. Or keep doing what you're doing. It was just an idea.

agirlbyanyothername wrote:As much as I dig your posts nonameatall, it might be copacetic to consolidate your posts under a single thread. You have a lot of posts at the moment and it might be driving newer posts further down. Or keep doing what you're doing. It was just an idea.

That was a pretty harsh comment, agirlbyanyothername.

If you were severely depressed and in a moment of crisis would you want someone criticizing you on the amount of posts you've made? It just seems a little inconsiderate of nonameatall's feelings.

nonameatall-

I hope you've seen some light in that hole by now. I'm in a hole as are many of the people here in the forum and you can write as many brief posts as you'd like. I find that when I'm really sad, writing doesn't come very easily because my brain is filled to the brim with anxieties and sadness. Sometimes a few words is all it takes.

Please, please, please don't do anything rash. (I know it's VERY hard.) Just think of what you like in life...what you enjoy. Watch a good movie, have a drink or two even. This feeling will pass. I don't know when; but I'm certain it will.

You'll leave this dark hole soon enough. Just close your eyes and imagine the light...

wildernessrealm wrote:

agirlbyanyothername wrote:As much as I dig your posts nonameatall, it might be copacetic to consolidate your posts under a single thread. You have a lot of posts at the moment and it might be driving newer posts further down. Or keep doing what you're doing. It was just an idea.

That was a pretty harsh comment, agirlbyanyothername.

If you were severely depressed and in a moment of crisis would you want someone criticizing you on the amount of posts you've made? It just seems a little inconsiderate of nonameatall's feelings.

nonameatall-

I hope you've seen some light in that hole by now. I'm in a hole as are many of the people here in the forum and you can write as many brief posts as you'd like. I find that when I'm really sad, writing doesn't come very easily because my brain is filled to the brim with anxieties and sadness. Sometimes a few words is all it takes.

Please, please, please don't do anything rash. (I know it's VERY hard.) Just think of what you like in life...what you enjoy. Watch a good movie, have a drink or two even. This feeling will pass. I don't know when; but I'm certain it will.

You'll leave this dark hole soon enough. Just close your eyes and imagine the light...

How’s that mind reading working for you, wildernessrealm?


It wasn’t intended to be a harsh comment, nor was it meant to diminish what nonameatall is going through. The majority of the posts are extremely random; some of them come across as positive and others come across as upset. They’re all one line and numerous in numbers. I was throwing out the idea that he could consolidate them into fewer posts; nothing more or nothing less. He doesn’t have to take my suggestion.

As I mentioned before, he’s certainly not alone in his suffering and he’s more likely to gardener more assistance if there’s one or two places to look vs. 15.

So… You know, since you're psychic and can read my thoughts and intentions..I don't have to tell you where to shove it.

Really, really mean response. Thanks a lot for ruining my day. I come on here to feel connected and all I get is attacked by someone when I was just trying to comfort someone else.

There wasn't even a slight intention of malice in my statement towards you! Why the anger...

Now you know how I felt. Your response was just as harsh and mean-spirited; my day just as soured. You shouldn’t talk down to people if you’re going to cry foul when they respond in kind. :sigh:

agirlbyanyothername wrote:ow you know how I felt. Your response was just as harsh and mean-spirited; my day just as soured. You shouldn’t talk down to people if you’re going to cry foul when they respond in kind. :sigh

I understand you were hurt; I'm sorry you were hurting, really. But you have to believe me here, I was in no way trying to be mean and I definitely wasn't talking down to you! I don't even know you; I have no reason to be mean to you.

You told me to shove it. C'mon, that is pretty mean-spirited. Can you at least admit that? I wasn't talking down to you, that post had nothing to do with you in fact. It was solely to comfort nonnmetall. I'm sorry if you took it as an attack, but I promise you it wasn't.

I'm really sorry. Can we call a truce?? I didn't mean to hurt you at all; i never mean to hurt anyone!