Lately I have been noticing that people with psychology degrees keep diagnosing people with BPD a lot. I'm not a psychologist, but my IQ is 135 and I have read a lot about psychology and I think I have a good ability to analyze things. I think Tess from the TV show Starting Over has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Some guy with a psychology degree said she had BPD. There's another person who I think has Histrionic Personality Disorder. Again, a psychology major thinks He has BPD. A moderator on this message board was sure his mother had PPD. Again, a professional diagnosed her with BPD.
I am starting to get the impression that psychologists and psychiatrists just diagnose people with BPD way too much and use it as a crutch because they don't want to be very specific in their diagnosis. Maybe they don't want to be held responsible for making a specific diagnosis. Maybe they want to keep things vague and confusing so people won't blame them for being wrong. BPD is the most vague personality disorder of all by far. It's hard to even understand what it is, it's so vague. It's like anybody who is very messed up, they can say that person has BPD. I'm not sure BPD is a real disorder. Maybe it's just something that lazy or incompetent psychologists call everyone who has personality problems.
I really do not trust the competency of psychiatrists and psychologists. I met one psychiatrist who was fairly good. She made me feel better about myself. She seemd fairly intelligent and wise. She was good mainly because she was very good at being sympathetic and she had some good common sense. But I met another psychiatrist and several therapists who were IDIOTS. They said the wrong things to me and their ideas were stupid, wrong, and ridiculous, and they weren't even good at being sympathetic. It seems like most of the therapists out there just want to get paid without helping people. It seems like they don't have the guts or the brains to actually try to give specific information to help anyone. So I really don't trust them. I have also heard a lot of other people saying how much therapists suck and how rare the good ones are. I personally have never met a good therapist.
I know there must be some great psychologists out there, because I've read some books and web pages that were intelligently written, but I haven't met any of these great people. They must be a small minority in the mental health field.
I think it's horrible that there are so many people with severe mental problems who need help, but there's so many therapists who are so bad and make you feel WORSE, and psychiatrists who are nothing more than drug pushers.