No-Win questions

my PD ex used to always ask questions and choices about what i wanted and shout when i got it wrong. For example, we'd be in the store and shed say "get us chocolate bars" and i'd say "what do you want", and she'd say "any just get me what you have", and then when i returned she'd shout and say "not those you idiot, you know i only eat (bar x)" and be angry. Or she'd say "where would you rather go, park or swimming" I'd say "i like swimming" and shed say "oh for gods sake that makes it hard, you should have said park" and be angry. But when i say "i don't care what we do or what we eat, just whatever will make you happy and not shout" she'd say "for gods sake you choose, i dont want to have to choose everything".

i know it doesnt matter now ive left, i just wanted to rant and get it off my chest.

Raz,
Sorry you had to tolerate a BPDer that is unaware, and very unhappy.
We are not all unaware, and can love unconditionally.

Blessings to you,
Red

well she was diagnosed. i feel crazy, so sad and angry, conflicting.

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This thread needs to be flagged.

kirayng wrote:This thread needs to be flagged.

I just did.

Glad you did Tea. This is seriously messed up. So much I would like to say, but will refrain.

Raz wrote:stupud bitch needs her face smashed in. she punished me with her PTSD, now im giving her a new dose of PTSD to go with. she has restraining order already. She already had one against 2 previous men because she provoked them to madness too. or maybe shes innocent and just bad luck to date all these monsters.

Wow I can see you're all charm

She must be pretty powerful to be able to provoke all those men to madness.

Insults and talking about this kind of violence will not be allowed on this forum.