if BPD's have abondonment issues...

Why do they leave their partners?
Because they want new love???
Help from women suffering from BPD is appreciated.

Changedman, maybe they leave their partners because they don't want to be the ones who are abandoned.

hi Changedman. from my veiw as bpd sd suffer and from what i have been thought it not that i found or she has found a new lover! i just find it hard to let some one in.... and i end up by not talking or seeing them as i have my last girl freind, in my veiw but they dont have what we have and dont realy understand us!! yes you can read all you want on the net and books but thats from a few people that have had there say. we all have diffrent effect from bpd. all i hope for us all that is that we will all find the right person for us and that understand us aqnd get to know us first.. i wish you the very best of luck... tka e good care now
jase-e