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......nevermind.

Hi,

I don't quite know how you got Borderline PD from her behaviour but, what does sound like is wrong with her is that she has been terribly spoilt by her parents. Her parents are probably still treating her as a baby, in fact, because her behaviour is exactly that (i.e. like a baby). How does a baby react? - They moan and cry when they want something; and that is exactly what she is doing when she doesn't get her own way with you.

Regarding your boyfriend, her reaction to it is jealousy - no doubt about it. The subsequent threats she then presented to you were most likely all hollow (e.g. her suicide threat).

I'm wondering though, why on Earth do you do what she says? She doesn't sound like a 'friend' at all becaus all she appears to think about is herself. You need to ask yourself one thing: Do you have time in life to be wasted on a person like this? If uou answer 'no', then change your email and phone number and never reply to any attempts at contact that she makes to you again.

She HAS TO learn that she cannot alwys get things her way. If you are just going to give-in to her demands, she will feel like she has won, and you will not be helping her future life at all.

Kevin